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Jade2002

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Hi!
my ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago. He want us to be friend but right now I think that having him close won’t help me. But I’m still in love with him and wish we could have a second chance.
I asked “should I contact him?”

60.1.2.5>2​

I feel like the first two lines are saying the opposite thing. I shouldn’t look somewhere else (1) and don’t miss the opportunity(2). Maybe it’s just reflecting my indecision, but then line 5 makes me think that maybe I should just go for it and see what happens.

Then I asked if I should just let him go 19.1.2>2
I’m having an hard time interpreting this one. Since it’s all about the same person I don’t know if’s it’s suggesting to really let go, or keep trying.
If anyone has an opinion or a similar experience I would be glad to hear!
Thank you!!
 

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I asked “should I contact him?”

60.1.2.5>2​

This is a No, in this context.
60: Limitation

1-stayng home is alright.
2-going out is alright.
5-Being content with the limitations is priceless.

Hexagram 2 does not take the lead...

Then I asked if I should just let him go 19.1.2>2
I'll unite with you right now by saying:
Yes, let him go!

This thing he is doing,
I've seen it many times.

It is a very selfish way the person avoids dealing with the difficulty of breaking up...
Dealing with the not-prettiness of things..
And it completely ignores the heart of the other party. He is prolonging your suffering to ease his own and has siezed all of the power.

He does not adore you.
Ditch him!
 
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This is a No, in this context.
60: Limitation

1-stayng home is alright.
2-going out is alright.
5-Being content with the limitations is priceless.

Hexagram 2 does not take the lead...


I'll unite with you right now by saying:
Yes, let him go!

This thing he is doing,
I've seen it many times.

It is a very selfish way the person avoids dealing with the difficulty of breaking up...
Dealing with the not-prettiness of things..
And it completely ignores the heart of the other party. He is prolonging your suffering to ease his own and has siezed all of the power.

He does not adore you.
Ditch him!
Thank you so much for the interpretation. My only doubt is about the reason why he broke up with me, it was after a small fight and a month later when I reached out he said he wanted to be alone.
I was interpreting all the readings like they were telling me to wait and see what happens and I have already done what I could. Since there were a lot of communication problems between us I thought that maybe things could work out.
I tossed again asking what would happen if I keep trying and got 33.3.6>45 and I think that’s my final answer. I need to stay away from things that will only hurt me. Is it correct?
 

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Hello,
If your only doubt concerns this small fight, do not worry because it does not appear in the hexagrams. This separation is not because of this dispute. As you say, communication was not good between you. You will find someone better for you...
33.3.6 – 45 strongly advises retirement, do not keep trying. 45 announces a gathering, maybe new opportunities for you to meet other people...
 

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Hello,
If your only doubt concerns this small fight, do not worry because it does not appear in the hexagrams. This separation is not because of this dispute. As you say, communication was not good between you. You will find someone better for you...
33.3.6 – 45 strongly advises retirement, do not keep trying. 45 announces a gathering, maybe new opportunities for you to meet other people...
Thank you!
 

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Thank you so much for the interpretation. My only doubt is about the reason why he broke up with me, it was after a small fight and a month later when I reached out he said he wanted to be alone.
I was interpreting all the readings like they were telling me to wait and see what happens and I have already done what I could. Since there were a lot of communication problems between us I thought that maybe things could work out.
I tossed again asking what would happen if I keep trying and got 33.3.6>45 and I think that’s my final answer. I need to stay away from things that will only hurt me. Is it correct?
Is it impossibile that is referring to time? Maybe it’s not the right time and there will be another chance later?
 

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Is it impossibile that is referring to time? Maybe it’s not the right time and there will be another chance later?
If you want to think that, why not... The problem is that you might see each other again, indeed, but the quality of the relationship will not be ideal at all.
And this retirement 33 will be profitable for you anyway...
 

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If you want to think that, why not... The problem is that you might see each other again, indeed, but the quality of the relationship will not be ideal at all.
And this retirement 33 will be profitable for you anyway...
Oh okay I was hoping that maybe 45 could be referring a new situation with him. But I got my answer and thank you all for helping me
 

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