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draytonten

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HEX 39.5.6>52 What can I expect from my lover ?

Dear fellow,

I am a bit confused in my current love relationship that is why I asked I Ching to provide me with some clarity. And I would be very grateful if you could help me to translate the underlying messages.

My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago…or more exactly he left me with very few explanations except that he was not able to handle the ups and downs of our relationship. Some were definitely on my side as I was wary and doubtful about our future since we have been dating each other for about 2 years but there was no sign of moving in or building a long-term project. Although these plans were in our mind and discussions a couple of months ago.

Anyway…since our last discussion when I asked him to think about the situation twice before making any big decision I have not heard from him.

Today I asked I Ching what I could expect from him ? And I got hex 39.5.6 changing to 52.

As hex 39 means obstruction I also asked what were the hurdles to be overcome; I got hex 8 with moving lines 3.4.6 changing to 33.

I do want to mend our broken hearts...even make a new start with him as I realized I made some mistakes that may have led to this terrible situation. But it sounds that I Ching suggests me to back off and not to expect a big change in my direction. Should I let him go ?

Thanks in advance for your feedback.
 
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Hi there. For your first question of what to expect from him... I think for right now is stillness (hex 52) meaning he is not doing anything... so yes, maybe that is why you haven't heard from him. But both lines in 39 seem overall good-- maybe he is looking for answer through friends, and the last line does say that this whole event can lead him to have a better understanding of what he wants, there is growth in the situation. For the second question about hurdles to overcome... hmmm, the way I see it is that you have to overcome any feeling of retreat you feel from him (hex 33), maybe it's a step he has to make in order to advance. If you focus on the middle line of the relating hex. 8.4 it means maybe there will be connection but it will be not intimate, like superficial out in the open. And well, the overall question of letting him go it's always only up to you. I think IC is just giving you insight of it all and how to deal with it for the moment. Good luck.
 

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What I could expect from him ? 39.5.6 → 52.
Nothing, obstruction and stillness, not good at all.

Hurdles to overcome? 8 - 33
You are trying to connect(8) while you should retreat altogether(33).
8.3 → 39 (Obstacles), Daniels: You are associating with the wrong people.
8.6 → 20 (Observing), Legge: We see one seeking union and attachment without having taken the first step (to such an end). There will be evil.

There is no common ground/base for this relationship to be built on. Something was wrong from the start.
Find someone else (.4).
 
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What I could expect from him ? 39.5.6 → 52.
Nothing, obstruction and stillness, not good at all.

That answer confuses me a lot.
line 39.6 refers to coming back and 52 stable situation. It could mean that he will come back to you when the time is ripe and 52 stability between you?
I received the same answer a couple of days ago. When I asked if my ex will come back to me. Difficult to answer. The answer seems to be so tricky.

I also asked what were the hurdles to be overcome; I got hex 8 with moving lines 3.4.6 changing to 33.
It seems to be better to retreat. There is nothing to be done at the moment.

So.. looking your second cast, I tend to agree with Ashteroid for both interpretations.
In my opinion, you should ask a more clear question about reunion.
 
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Thanks to all of you for your answers...as it is quite accurate. Ashteriod, you are right saying that my relationship is not built on a common base, I am feeling the same way to be honest. Since my first post my lover contacted me and suggested to see each other. But the D-day he cancelled our meeting...pretending he was too tired to discuss :(...and since then he keeps silence.

He's been visiting his relatives these days to celebrate some big family events...that I was first supposed to share with all of them. So our discussion is not his top priority for now and I am not surprised that he does not return any of my peaceful messages. We will see now...but it is true that I do not expect any big change in his behaviour and (lack of) involvment in our relationship. Thanks again for your insight.
 

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