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London.
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United Kingdom
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17.4 Following with achieving. Determination pitfall. Have truth, go your road and use intelligence. No need to feel faulty.
Personally, I worry in myself when I find myself over-justifying someone's good qualities, it can show self-doubt or a sense of wanting to rescue someone. You mention have trauma-based trust issues but these in my experience more often than not lead me to trust the wrong people rather than to NOT trust the right people, who tend to be the ones who stick around patiently and not be asking for favors.Don't rigidly stick to a goal, follow what your intuïtion and common sense tell you to follow.
Personally, I worry in myself when I find myself over-justifying someone's good qualities, it can show self-doubt or a sense of wanting to rescue someone. You mention have trauma-based trust issues but these in my experience more often than not lead me to trust the wrong people rather than to NOT trust the right people, who tend to be the ones who stick around patiently and not be asking for favors.
If his ex-girlfriend and the apartment owner both have problems with his living style, and you do not feel good in your gut about it....I would interpret 17.4 as a warning. Especially with relating hexagam of 3, which has never boded well for me personally - a lot of stress right off the bat.
Maybe he is a good guy after all, but that does not mean a good situation for you. its your space and okay to make the right choice for your sense of safety. Is inspiration a good trade off for the impact it will have on you mentally?
So I asked the oracle what I should do. Can I trust him? Should I invite him back to stay in my small apartment, or tell him to hit the road?
The answer 17.4 > 3.
Who has made the catch? Has he caught you with his positivity towards you and the project? Is this throwing you off course at all? I think the answer seems simply to call for a very clear head. I think we know when we have stopped acting in line with what's really true for us and started to act in line with another's flattery or regard. We just know that in our bones. So you'll already know this There is a real pitfall in beginning to shape ourselves towards another's praise. I recall somewhere a quote about praise being death to the artist, it can be a pitfall when the artist start to produce work to the audience's taste not according to her own standards. It's the same here.'Following makes a catch. Constancy, pitfall.
With sincerity and confidence, holding to the path with clarity,
How can this be wrong?'
It sounds like he is a little bit of a user and so be careful he's not using a lot of charm on you, which would fit for 17.4, in order to stay in your place. You are the judge of that not me but you'd think if you were given a free apartment in exchange for work you'd be more than glad to do the work! Unless you friend made unreasonable demands this was an immature way to act really given a free apartment is no small thing! Would he rather stay with you through using sweet and inspiring words than do some real graft? I may be being too harsh here but just going by what you're saying....and the 17.4But my friend who owns the building graciously agreed to let him stay in another empty apartment in the building in exchange for this man doing work-trade as well.
But after a week "trial run" my friend just told me tonight he doesn't feel like this man is pulling his weight enough to justify the free apartment, and wants him out by the end of next weekend. My friend is fine if this man stays in his building, as long as he goes back into my spare room, (for as long as I feel comfortable with.) But it's my call.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).