Should I move back to home country & relationship? 24.2 to 19 for yes __ 9.3.5 to 41 for no

[birch_tree]

Hi,

I have lived overseas for a long time. About a year ago I reconnected with a former boyfriend and we've been planning on me moving back (but to a new city for me, his home), but we both now seem rather on the fence about it. My contract is up, and I could either go for a job in a new place (professionally easier) or return home looking for a new job. Not moving back would mean ending the relationship.

I asked twice, the first "My future with ....." and got 24.2 to 19 (Return to Noble Calling). Then I asked "my future without ..." and got 9.3.5 to 41 (Gentle restraint to decrease).

I want to try to make our relationship work, but depending on the day, I am worried it won't and we will go through a lot of pain in the process. Having been away from my home country for so long, I am also very nervous about moving back, not to mention getting a job where I have no contacts.

When I read the 24.2 to 19, it sounds like it would be beneficial for him, but ultimately would not work (something I have wondered about). 9.3.5 to 41 seems both sad and perhaps ultimately a better decision. Incidentally, this is someone I have dated on and off and always felt like we should be able to work it out, but we are very different people.

Thank you for all of your advice. I really appreciate it.

 

[moss elk]

"My future with ....." and got 24.2 to 19

This line is a picture of you being drawn to return home, and it is promising.

Don't read anything else into it.
(especially whatever source said it would be good for him, but not work out=
none of that is in the reading.)
It's a good thing.

 

[rosada]

I see 24.2-19 as describing you being able to
24.2 Return without a lot of commotion and fanfare.
19. You may discover you've learned a lot about yourself and relationships since the time you were together before and this works to your advantage.
Just be sure to give yourselves plenty of time to adjust to each other - a trial marriage?

9.3 Husband and wife rolling their eyes - so as you mentioned, if you don't move back there is the possibility the relationship won't continue.
9.5 However, maybe you'll continue to stay in touch, be friends, good "neighbors"? Actually this sounds like what you've been doing already - you broke off the partnership but remained friendly.
41. Decrease. Well duh.

I don't think 41. Decrease is saying your whole future decreases, just that the relationship does.

Pretty much agreeing with Moss here.

 

[rosada]

As a follow up question you might ask, "Where would I be better off?"

 

[birch_tree]

This line is a picture of you being drawn to return home, and it is promising.

Don't read anything else into it.
(especially whatever source said it would be good for him, but not work out=
none of that is in the reading.)
It's a good thing.

Dear Moss Elk, I stayed up much too late clicking refresh, refresh, refresh, and when your message came up, it was like a weight lifted. Thank you so much your interpretation advice, and thank you for using italics on promising. Promising

 

[birch_tree]

As a follow up question you might ask, "Where would I be better off?"

Dear Rosada,
Thank you so much for interpreting the yes and no. Your description of returning without a lot of commotion and fanfare, plus being able to use what we've learned in the past, helps alleviate some of my worries. Moving is so hard, and strangely enough, moving to my own country can be the hardest of all.

I took your advice and asked if I would be better off moving there or staying overseas, and got:

48.6.2 to 59, The Well to Dissolution. I see this as it is time to go back and work things out properly.

What do you think?