Should I stay or should i go? 9.2.5>22 and Double53.

[elizabeth]

I had initially planned to stay in this foreign country for 5 months, but when I bought the tickets I had not yet met the man w/whom I began a relationship several months before leaving. I’m doing important work here, and won’t cut the trip short for that reason, but I am trying to not waste time so that I can leave as soon as I’m finished. I am not clear if that is a good idea or not though.

Show me a picture of staying in this foreign country until August (as originally planned). 9.2.5>22.

Show me a picture of going back early (in july).
53. Twice. Unchanging - the marrying maiden. Implies it is a bad idea, no? That i wont have any power or say in events if i do this?

Then, since this was a general/overall reading, I asked how returning early would specifically affect things between me and this man. The Yi said: 40.1 and 54.

40 suggests "going back to your roots and reconnecting with home and allies. When you know where you’re coming from, it becomes a lot easier to be clear about where you’re going." Line 1 says no mistake. But 54 says going forward is unfavorable (the marriagable maiden but not hte first wife).

It looks negative to go back early. Am I missing anything?

 

[Trojina]

53 isn't the marrying maiden, thats 54. 53 is gradual development

did you get 53 or 54 ?

 

[elizabeth]

Oops sorry YES Trojan. (I got confused reading about both 53 and 54 back to back.) The hexes i listed are correct but I mislabeled that one. I received:

--Picture of returning early, in general: 53. Twice. Unchanging
--How returning early would affect the relationship: 40.1 and 54.

So to correct myself:

40 suggests "going back to your roots and reconnecting with home and allies. When you know where you’re coming from, it becomes a lot easier to be clear about where you’re going."
Line 1 says no mistake. And 54 is marrying maiden...

Then i take this to mean that GENERALLY going back early is positive but NOT for the sake of the relationship. Maybe for other reasons. Is that it?

 

[Trojina]

9.2.5>22 ...I can't relate it to 'if you stay' becasue i find the Yi tends to address what is and what will be more and more often so I'd just say thisis a more general answer that you will find the solution to the whole issue via being guided by the situation or another (9.2) i ifnd 9.2 means somehow you get to go where you are meant to go,,,because it becomes obvious its the sensible/best thing to do. 9.5 shows shared resources, possibly help from someone else so somehow i think it maybe this whole decision also involves others to a good degree who can help

Again i have trouble with the 'give me a picture of' and don't use it becasue Yi is so practical it cuts straight to the chase IMO...and your answer to the whole thing was in 9>22. anyway many do use that way..so i will let them give you their view on that but i see 53 unchanging putting the question back to you. In 53 one follows all the correct procedures, no rushing things..so it could well be taken as don't try to force the pace at all, do things as planned. So you need to think carefully if you want to bypass the normal pace of things...it may be throwing the question back at you


40.1 is a very simple line meaning 'there is no problem' .

Like i said in my message I'd let this rest a while given the 9.2 and not try to finalise a decision right now...it is likley to just get clearer as time passes what to do

 

[elizabeth]

Thanks Trojan. I will try to sit tight. I really dont know where (in the world) i'm going to end up at this point... and I am more than a tad eager to know so i can settle it in my mind. But i will wait...