Should I tell him? hexagram 58 unchanging

[hellomoon]

So I decided to try the I Ching for my girlfriend who is dating a guy for about six months. She asked the I Ching if she tells him she loves him what will happen between them? I guess this is an advice question. I personally feel its too early to tell him as they only been dating a few months. But she really feels in love and wants to tell him so. She is nervous to tell him, and she plans on telling him next month as its her birthday soon.Hexagram 58 is called "Opening" and also called "Joy". I did a bit of research and it looks very positive for the both of them if she tells him so. I feel like the oracle is saying it will bring happiness and joy for one another. I really cannot see anything negative here to be honest. Am I seeing this correctly? Thank you!!!

 

[rosada]

Hexagram 58 is about open communication but unchanging sometimes means nothing comes of the situation, nothing changes. So if she's bubbling over with joy and good feeling I guess this hexagram is saying go ahead and blurt it out. However, if she's hoping that he will then tell her that he loves her too or that somehow this declaration will lead to a stronger bond, I think she'll be disappointed.
Still, it doesn't sound like he'll run screaming for the door.
58. uc : Happy talk - nothing changes.

 

[hellomoon]

In that case, I would encourage her to not say anything! I feel saying it too soon could ruin a very happy relationship; she looks very happy & so does he. I didn't say the L word after one year with my current partner! Thank you Rosada!!!