Showing interest 27.4.6-51

[Lodestar]

Hi iching friends.
I'm asking a few questions about someone who came into my life out of the blue and seemed very very keen on me at the time and I played it fairly cool as he was an unknown. He has an incredibly busy life, encourages me to keep in touch, but contact is sporadic.

Contact him as my friend suggested? Tell him how I feel - don't let it fizzle out through fear of the unknown. 27.4.6-51. (Trust your intuition?)

What will his response be if I do send this message? 19.6-41 Approach -decreasing (sincere advancing?)

Will he contact me if I do nothing? 25.1-12 without entanglement - blocked
(First impulses of the heart are almost always pure and good) ?

Could my future involve being married to him? 22.3-27

What next step should I take for finding trustworthy love? 63.4.5-55 already across abundance

Any thoughts most appreciated

 

[Tohpol]

I'd say those readings encourage an open and sincere communication along with a dash of "anything-could-happen" attitude. Fairly joyous set. Go with it. Don't think so far in the future (Marriage??) stay with the present... let it slow burn to a peak.

I also think the fear can be left in the past where it belongs. Enjoy your new time.

Sometimes us blokes need a little nudge in the right direction to get the ball rolling.

 

[Lodestar]

Thanks Topal!!
Ha ha Marriage - I know!!
I'm actually pretty scared of the thought of marrying anyone!

- I think I just put it in there as a test of the depth of connection rather than wanting that outcome.

Thanks for taking the time to reply to my query, much appreciated :bows:

 

[Lodestar]

Well I can't believe it, I've done it.
Sometimes life seems so defined, we feel so helpless.

Yet just by saying 'emm what if I wasn't so passive? What if I did this..' a whole set of new possibilities come into being.

Whatever happens, I've just redefined myself, by taking a step that typically I would avoid.

Thanks Topal!

 

[Tohpol]

Good for you! And well done for having the courage to do it. :bows:

 

[Lodestar]

Hi Topal. Well it's a no go. .. the connection is there, but it turns out he's in a committed relationship.

No regrets, glad to find that out so that I'm not waiting around for him. But yes regrets it won't turn into the joyous connection I can feel. In fact I feel really good about asking directly!

..so many people flirt, but often it's an exercise of vanity on their behalf, or wishful thinking they don't have any intention of following through on because it would de-stabilise their comfortable life. And that's a valid fear.

Was any hint of this in the readings I wonder? I know they can be read from so many angles.

 

[Tohpol]

Ahhh, shame.

I'm glad you felt good about asking.

Yes, the flirting demon can be fun but confusing, especially when he was in a committed relationship! Hoi! (i guess that's where 51 came in as well)

27.4 says nothing wrong with going for what you desire if it's for the right reasons. 27.6 is about nourishing others positively or being the sacrificial lamb. So, sure, always more angles.

That being said, I think it's given you a lightness of step to remain receptive. Many thanks for coming back on it Lodestar.

So, onwards and upwards.