slow and steady or forgetaboutit

[dragona]

Hello, everyone
quick question if you can help-I am confused and cannot see neutral like -
What kind of a relationship does this person want with me? 62 2,3,5 into 47
It is a male and we started as friends, lots of talking but over the phone than we were supposed to hang out a bit more but he retreated under some sort of reason I do not buy. Since dealing with very closed up, scared even Capricorn, I allowed it to linger, but now I am at the stage of paranoia of being manipulated. I tend to take human relations seriously, so be kind to comment.
Ty, and as always, :bows:

 

[dragona]

so nobody knows but the plot thickens (as if)
What does this man want from me (in general)? 50.2,5 >33
To understand him, to listen better (stupid memes and silence)? Not interested in superficialities much, ty

 

[Seeker0970]

Memes? Forget about it!
62.5 getting basic needs met well I don't think memes are what you had in mind!

 

[loverofknowledge]

Just an intuitive guess on this one
62.2.3.5 suggests that he is preoccupied with some critical (and perhaps dramatic)
business (62.5) while 62.3 indicates that the relationship is surrounded by an atmosphere of
mistrust or caution. If you wish to reach him, perhaps you can work through a maternal figure (62.2) and act with small expectations and attention to detail.
Right now the relationship is oppressive so it may not be a good time to act.
Your second reading 50.2.5 to 33 is clear: he wants you to retreat for now. You can bring out the nobility in yourself 50.5 while being careful (yet generous) in disposition (50.2) -- and then approach him when the moment is right.

 

[dragona]

It is a good guess, even if just intuitive....but you see, nobody seem to care what i need or want...
so my shelf life has expired, i am afraid...
How will things turn out in the next month (asked earlier in Sept.)? 40.2<16
I think it is a case of cold feet, but what i most resent, is the unwillingness to communicate THIS out, as other things before. Failing to help in some things i really counted on as i thought we made a loose deal and the attraction WAS being a man of his word makes me disappointed much more than he realizes.
A. Balanced insight into the situation differentiates and eliminates harmful elements.
B. Bull’s-eye! – your suspicions are confirmed.
Make your pick.

 

[precision grace]

It is a good guess, even if just intuitive....but you see, nobody seem to care what i need or want...
so my shelf life has expired, i am afraid...
How will things turn out in the next month (asked earlier in Sept.)? 40.2<16
I think it is a case of cold feet, but what i most resent, is the unwillingness to communicate THIS out, as other things before. Failing to help in some things i really counted on as i thought we made a loose deal and the attraction WAS being a man of his word makes me disappointed much more than he realizes.
A. Balanced insight into the situation differentiates and eliminates harmful elements.
B. Bull’s-eye! – your suspicions are confirmed.
Make your pick.

It's always problematic when two people have different ideas of what constitutes relationship AND different ways of communicating.

In the wiki, 40.2 has this poignant line: "Catching the foxes in the open – distinguishing between fantasy and reality. " Make of that what you will.

For what it's worth, I am so sorry to learn about this disappointing time for you dragona. I hope someone more suitable comes along for you if that's what you are looking for!