So there's this guy... 🙃

[ponytailtree]

Hi folks,

There's a guy I like... nothing has happened, we get on but neither of us has made a move, I asked how does he feel about me and got 8.1.2.3.5 - 11

We just had a short meeting together (we volunteer at the same place) and it was just to two of us - I felt awkward and was trying to be very neutral and he was being very neutral too.
Asked the same question again after - 33uc.

Should I give up?

P. S I'm also asking how I feel about him at the same time, first one was 19.5. 6 to 61 and then 62.2.6 to 50 which perfectly reflects my disappointment and that maybe I've built divination castles in the sky...

Many thanks x

 

[redoleander]

Hi there! I'll start by saying I'm a complete beginner. I'm responding because I'd like to practice and also to engage with others' posts (rather than just ask questions myself)... but please take with a grain of salt or not at all if you wish. haha.

8.1.2.3.5
I am reading this as the connection being somehow flimsier than you would like it to be. We are starting at Holding Together but there's so much changing that it's not really solid. Like the commitments aren't clear. It's not exactly being led on but more just that there isn't a mutual understanding of the agreements between you. It's leading toward the peace of pulling back and not pursuing a specific desire. I think that maybe 33uc is echoing this? It may be advising you this person doesn't/wouldn't really know what he wants or could be more oblivious or even misleading than the place you are coming from. Perhaps there's even a "pull back and see what happens" suggestion here. That it's not by being in pursuit that this ends in the way you want it to.

To me it says, there is a connection here but understanding the type of connection is key. It might not be of a romantic nature.

Line 3 Legge: The third line, magnetic, shows its subject seeking for union with such as ought not to be associated with.
Line 2 Legge: The second line, magnetic, shows the movement toward union and attachment proceeding from the inward mind. With firm correctness there will be good fortune.

Maybe it's better in your mind than in reality?

Again, I'm so new to this and often struggle with seeing contradictory possibilities in the same reading so I would be very happy to be wrong and very well could be!

 

[marybluesky]

He seeks union with you and wants it to "flow" easily.

Your second reading shows you want you approach him based on your inner truth, and the third points to your disappointment, that the things aren't as you want at thins time- but that you want to cook it .

 

[ponytailtree]

Hi there! I'll start by saying I'm a complete beginner. I'm responding because I'd like to practice and also to engage with others' posts (rather than just ask questions myself)... but please take with a grain of salt or not at all if you wish. haha.

8.1.2.3.5
I am reading this as the connection being somehow flimsier than you would like it to be. We are starting at Holding Together but there's so much changing that it's not really solid. Like the commitments aren't clear. It's not exactly being led on but more just that there isn't a mutual understanding of the agreements between you. It's leading toward the peace of pulling back and not pursuing a specific desire. I think that maybe 33uc is echoing this? It may be advising you this person doesn't/wouldn't really know what he wants or could be more oblivious or even misleading than the place you are coming from. Perhaps there's even a "pull back and see what happens" suggestion here. That it's not by being in pursuit that this ends in the way you want it to.

To me it says, there is a connection here but understanding the type of connection is key. It might not be of a romantic nature.

Line 3 Legge: The third line, magnetic, shows its subject seeking for union with such as ought not to be associated with.
Line 2 Legge: The second line, magnetic, shows the movement toward union and attachment proceeding from the inward mind. With firm correctness there will be good fortune.

Maybe it's better in your mind than in reality?

Again, I'm so new to this and often struggle with seeing contradictory possibilities in the same reading so I would be very happy to be wrong and very well could be!

Thank you so much for your reply! I'm a beginner too, will mull over your thoughts...

 

[ponytailtree]

He seeks union with you and wants it to "flow" easily.

Your second reading shows you want you approach him based on your inner truth, and the third points to your disappointment, that the things aren't as you want at thins time- but that you want to cook it .

I love it when I get 61, feel so proud of all the work I've done to be true to myself, but yes, I would absolutely love to cook this one... Thank you