Something beautiful.... :)

[lotty]

I'm deepening my knowledge of a colleague. He is an interesting and intelligent person, but I do not feel in complete harmony. there is absolutely nothing, but it seems to me a situation that could lead to something good (maybe just a beautiful friendship!). so I asked "what is my situation with A.?". The outcome was 47.1.3.6> 1.
Do you help me?

 

[lotty]

It is not a contradiction a sign so stagnant and then a positive result as 1?

 

[mirian]

It is not a contradiction a sign so stagnant and then a positive result as 1?

Dear lotty,

The relating hexagram -which in your case is 1- is not the result of the primary hexagram (your 47.1.3.6). There are several threads on this forum explaining the relationship between the primary and the relating hexagram (and several theories as well. Anyway, it is something for you to have a look when you get the time.

For now, I just want to comment briefly on your reading. I see the "stagnation" as you called it, represented by Hex 47, more as a state of mind. What I mean is it is more related to your own attitude than to external circumstances. Looking into your lines what your reading tells me is that there is nothing preventing your from having harmony in the relationship with your colleague. It is your feeling that you cannot communicate with this person, and you cannot feel at ease, it is your impression that things cannot simply flow. What needs changing is your state of mind, as things are much simpler than you think. The complication is within

Hope that helps :bows:

 

[ginnie]

When you two are together, you feel drained and don't know why. It's better to let this go and not pursue it any further, because you might never figure out this incompatibility.

 

[BillDai]

you and the guy you like are in a situatuation where it is not inappropriate for you to initiate any act to him. If you insist on doing something on him, you may regret over doing so.

Here is my personal suggestion: do not do anything other than showing your care upon the guy. Reveal your concern over his trivial things sometimes and initiate a small talk with him if it is possible. I think the two ways would claim his attention to you. By the time he ask you out for a meal, you will have known that it is time to deepen the relationship.

 

[rodaki]

hi Lotty,

I recently had a thread on 'Exploring' about 47 and I came out of it feeling all the more that it is about self-doubt as well as about a desire that's being unspoken - how about loosening up a bit and initiating some flow? I like BillDai's suggestion too . .

 

[lotty]

you and the guy you like are in a situatuation where it is not inappropriate for you to initiate any act to him. If you insist on doing something on him, you may regret over doing so.

Here is my personal suggestion: do not do anything other than showing your care upon the guy. Reveal your concern over his trivial things sometimes and initiate a small talk with him if it is possible. I think the two ways would claim his attention to you. By the time he ask you out for a meal, you will have known that it is time to deepen the relationship.

Thank you all for your answers ... and thanks to BillDai because, somehow, he guessed! We are never left alone, we always went out together with other colleagues, and an evening we flirted a bit. The next time, always all together, he asked me to invite all of them to my house to cook the specialties of my country. What I really liked this (except for the hard work I should do :-( ). I consider he asked me out for a meal or not? 