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goddessliss

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Hi,

Recently my son moved to his dad's place for a number of reasons but mainly because he thinks he can convince his dad to break away from his abusive and volatile relationship.

My son has been there for a month and has been copping emotional and mental abusive himself from his father's partner and and now his father is also starting to turn on him.

I cannot convince my son to move away from the situation. I am more than concerned. I have contacted both of his older brothers who are attempting to help in their own way but they both live far away from us.

I have also contacted children's services but they say because of his age(16) there is not anything they can do.

Show me a picture of K moving away from his present living circumstances

Hex 5.2.6>37

Hex 5 looks like it's a waiting game for me line 2 his brothers and I talking between ourselves
line 6 my son caught in the abusive situation and me and his brothers coming to help him but it doesn't actually say he comes away.

thku
Melissa
 

lucia

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I think you have framed your question a bit strangely in as much as you are asking for the answer that you want.

Maybe better a question would just be something like: please show me a picture of K's living situation.

what you have with the 5.2.6>37
is a picture of a waiting game in the family but because of the way you loaded the question it may just be talking about you its not really clear.

5.2 is an uncomfortable or insecure place to wait but it isn't forever - 5 is about making the space for whatever it is you are waiting for......
5.6 suggests that you can't anticipate what's around the corner so maybe best just to get on with things and let it happen in its own time. I don't see any abuse in the lines......

37 is also about marking out the boundaries and interplays of close relations.

I have a son too and at 16 they are boy/men you can't really make them do anything they don't want to. He has to figure it out for himself and probably the best you can do is let him know that you respect his choices and that you are there for him if and when he needs you.

Maybe by doing that your son will learn that likewise its not really his place to change his dad's relationships either. Its so hard being a mum and letting go isn't it?

I hope it settles down for you soon....
 

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One member of my family was convinced that one of my exs was beating when the thought of that made him, literally, throw up. Another ex of mine used to call me "person" but my family loved him. Are you sure that your perception of your ex and what you want for your son is saying isn't skewing your question?

I may have missed an earlier post but it sounds like you skipped straight to the end that you want to see instead of looking at the entire situation.
 
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Oh dear, I would really appreciate anyone who would like to comment on my posts, to look at my previous posts and see just what a fair, levelled headed and very much a person of intergrity I am considering some of the very trying(understatement) circumstances I have had to deal with over the past couple of years in regards to my exhusband and his partner. thku
 

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Melissa, I can appreciate and respect that sentiment. I have looked through your earlier posts and have often found your feedback on readings to be very helpful. You've been here for many years whereas I haven't. My question wasn't meant as chastisement, only an external point of view based on what I could find of what you shared colored by my own experiences.
 

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