Clarity,
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London.
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United Kingdom
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I think it sounds like he really trusts his Mom, really is open to your advice and compassion and guidance.Thanks foxx777 and dragona for helping with this emotional situation.
Yes dragona I am thinking I need to be a bit pushy although that is not my way but I need him well and certainly not fighting ongoing depression - something I have done all my life and although counselling has helped me process and progress recently I have had enough as spoken about on my recent threads and am really hoping to get it sorted this time - yay for the art therapy, and this site amongst other resources I am using.
But for a 17 y.o. I think they do need their mum or at least someone who can really help them.
It was a beautiful moment when he said - ' I didn't ring J(his brother) cause I just need to hear your wisdom, mum' lol don't we live to hear that from our children. - Liss
Revolution means making possible changes for a good future.
Your son is in line 1 of hexagram 49. This month he is not sure about himself, but this situation will continue for sometime (at least 6 months or more) to come (line 1 卯木 sits under the next few months of luck).
You are in line 4 (water) and try to help him (line 1 wood).
This makes sense - he chose to leave living with me to go live with his dad(thinking he could save his dad from being an addict), which then turned into a domestic violence situation. Now he has left living with him and is living with his mate I still think he is far too young to have done this and it is now beginning to show. Brave perhaps but he is not mature to understand the implications thereby putting himself through unnecessary struggles but although we did speak about the implications as a teenager he did not want to listen
If it is a career matter, wait for 官鬼丁未土 应 line 6 of hexagram 31. Events start to change by July 6 (counting 30 days, may be after Jul 20).
Line 1 + line 4 of hexagram 49 + month of Jul 6 & thereafter 未土 = wood. The wood character is strong. Mother and son will work together to achieve results.
Yes at the moment he is definitely looking for a career - an apprenticeship or traineeship. And I always help and support him as best I can.
One female is under line 3 of 49 under another guy. The female and the guy may be both someone he knows. Mind his own business, the two has nothing to do with his future. Guy may move, female he likes or a friend.
This may be his father and his partner who are both addicts - although my son does not like the female at all - she has commited abusive volatile offenses towards him.
Line 1 & 6 of hexagram 31 are both career/academic lines. Everything has something to do with his immediate future.
For your son: career or academic, + another female (someone’s girl). I think that is the picture. Your question is not specific to the Oracle.
Maybe my son's girlfriend although she is not very supportive of him and plays mind games with him.
Miscellaneous: Hexagram 31 is a sexual attraction, intercourse type of hexagram. In this analysis, change for him is necessary to achieve success. However, the outcome is also like people having sex. When sex is over, the person achieves objective, buy he is really tired. There is no good or bad news to this hexagram. Your son is capable. You can encourage him in Jun/Jul and help him in Jul.
He is sitting on the line of green dragon. Too young to fly. His time will come if he changes. He is smart enough to talk to you. Just to clarify, the sex is an analogy for the situation, not meaning that he has an affair with someone. Not to worry.
One additional comment: 官鬼 officer/ghost line can mean illness. As mom, please check that he is mentally sound. I do not see anything bad on this issue in your hexagram.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).