Stopping Relationship 53.3.5.6 to 2

[Elusive]

Hi everyone,

It has been 3 months since the thread https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?27384-14-3-6-gt-54-What-should-i-do

I have finally decided to put this relationship to a stop first after his wife come back from her hometown next week, he doesn't wish for things to end between us but he told me he will still try his best for us, because at the moment he can't leave yet because his wife hasn't found anyone. He couldn't bring himself to initiate also because his wife came to our country all alone for him 10 years ago, and other considerations. For me I don't want him to feel guilty and bad anymore, and I also don't have the courage to see him go back to his wife everyday again.

Even though I know this is for the best, and hoping that distancing will provide clarity for both of us, there's still some kind of fear inside me for what will happen in the future, especially when we will still be seeing each other regularly at work.

I asked Iching, how will things progress between us after his wife come back, 53.3.5.6 to 2
53 again, full of obstacles?

I asked how are things between them now, 63.3.5 to 24
Already across to Returning, things are normal between them?

Really appreciate any insights thanks!

 

[liquidity]

53.3.5.6 suggests that things will be awkward and complicated (53.3) for a while between you two, but if you can persist and be sensitive (2) to the situation, you can get over it and something good will come out of the situation (53.5 and 53.6).

When the wife returns (24), their relationship is at a point where a lot of sustained, time-consuming work is going to have to be done to move things forward positively (63.3) and it will be better to try for small, humble gains than for anything grand (63.5).