strange hexagrams strange situation hexagram 29.1>60

[diidii]

I quarreled with a person I care about and we haven't talked to each other for a long time and I would like to remedy the situation. The first question was: "What if I get close to X?" hexagram 29.1> 60 it seems to me a clear no a kind of digging the pit alone then I asked: "what should i do with x?" hexagram 50 unchanged the hexagram is said to be very positive but in this case why did I have two hexagrams, one negative and the other positive? does hexagram 50 mean wait?

 

[rosada]

29.1 A bad situation made worse.
50. Something ordinary made sacred.

Maybe 29.1 is a warning not to try to remedy the situation by rehashing the old argument. Like don’t call and say, “I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings when I told you I thought you were totally wrong and stupid...”

Maybe 50 is advice to simply reach out and say how much you value the friendship.

 

[diidii]

29.1 A bad situation made worse.
50. Something ordinary made sacred.

Maybe 29.1 is a warning not to try to remedy the situation by rehashing the old argument. Like don’t call and say, “I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings when I told you I thought you were totally wrong and stupid...”

Maybe 50 is advice to simply reach out and say how much you value the friendship.

ok so at first pretending nothing happened? I noticed that 50 immutable really comes out very often is there any other meaning for 50 immutable? would a message be fine or should i stay passive and wait? I ask why 50 say it's a bit like cooking

 

[diidii]

I have another question how can we apply the cauldron in emotional / loving relationships?

 

[rosada]

For a love relationship The Cauldron would encourages a spiritual perspective. Avoid casting blame, be undemanding and cultivate honesty and trust.

 

[diidii]

For a love relationship The Cauldron would encourages a spiritual perspective. Avoid casting blame, be undemanding and cultivate honesty and trust.

thanks rosada! if there are updates i will write to you