Successful interview and a love question

[viloletka]

I asked if tomorrow I will have successful PhD interview and the answer was 42 unchangeing? what does it mean? I can only see positive meaning from this. Also I recentl broke up with my boyfriend and I asked "Will we get back together?"

hexagram 12 4.6

thanx a lot to everyone who responds

 

[cris]

Hi Viloletka,

in my modest view both readings are auspicious. 42 looks like a definite green light for the interview. Since this has taken place, has this been the case?

As to question about your boyfriend, hex 12 would appear to indicate the current separation and perhaps hostility, however both lines show a positive change in the situation with, at a minimum, the re-establishment of some harmonious communication (hex 8). Line 4 seems to suggest you should wait for him to make the first move.

All the best and let us know how it turns out

 

[viloletka]

the interview was perfect !....the love - so far no significant improvement,i stay away and keep on waiting, since there has been much hostility on his part.

 

[viloletka]

I axsked how does so and so feel about me, and I received hex 5.2->63. I read on this thread from someone who has asked a similar question that this means that the person sees the asker as "volatile argumentative and easily hurt by criticism", which is EXACTLY why we broke up - I am very emotional, according to my ex "unstable" and he cannot trust me, how I will behave next time i feel hurt for whatever reason.

I ask what should my line of behaviour be towards my ex and I get 21.6...does this mean I should repent, or what?

 

[cris]

Reading the changing line, I find it hard to understand whether the person in the wooden cangue is you (being punished but still unable to see the situation as it is, possibly amending your past mistakes) or your ex (irremovable from his resentment and deaf to any reason). In either case you are not in a position to take any action. I would stick with the advise already received in line 12.4 and simply wait.

Just my modest take...

 

[Lena Loren]

I belive Yi say´s that there is an obstacle here that you are on your way working with. (12, 4,6) and that there is a chance that you two will be back on track...but you have to change your way in relating to others. And that if you know you have a tendency to be easily hurt by criticism then maybe thats just the thing for you to work with.
For me the top line in 21.. I get that when I´m not listening to my inner guidance and good advice .
Line 2 in 5 i find i my experience also has to do with guilt. Who´s feeling guilty easily?
I belive like Cris that he should make the first move. But when he comes try to not fight and try to not defend your self by fighting him...because the second line in hex 5 I belive warns for more fights.

 

[viloletka]

We are sort of back together, but im not sure.because both of us have some reserves and things are just not smooth, but artificial and weird. It does not feel right.