sucker for punishment

[goddessliss]

Good morning,

Despite what has happened over recent weeks I have not given up my quest for romance!
My question - under what circumstances will I meet my new romantic partner.

Hex 24.1>2
So clearly I went down the wrong path with this recent relationship.
So does line 1 mean once I have come back to my right path I will meet someone new or does it mean I just have to hang out with self for a while.

thks and blessings
Melissa

 

[Trojina]

Good morning,

Despite what has happened over recent weeks I have not given up my quest for romance!
My question - under what circumstances will I meet my new romantic partner.

Hex 24.1>2
So clearly I went down the wrong path with this recent relationship.
So does line 1 mean once I have come back to my right path I will meet someone new or does it mean I just have to hang out with self for a while.
thks and blessings
Melissa

Probably means that IMO. Take a look at your 'quest for romance'...what is it really a quest for ? Maybe the person you really need to be near right now is you. The idea of romance may be something you seek to lose yourself in like an addictive substance ?

24.1 simply shows returning from some minor digression on your path and while I feel it most likley means what you said thats only becasue most often 24 is about a return to ourselves, which is a very precious thing....but there aren't many good pop songs about returning to yourself whereas theres loads of good ones about romance hence makingit even more attractive as an addiction of choice


Actually there is a song by Enigma called 'return to yourself'.... i think


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-JpJjsHgYHA

 

[goddessliss]

Thks Trojan, well yeah romance is addictive - but I find most romantic songs are about broken hearts or similar.
Hmm...actually have a beautiful life really and would love to be sharing it with someone, you know companionship etc. I am nearly 50 and well it would just be nice.
have a lovely day
Melissa

 

[elias]

Hex 24.1>2
So clearly I went down the wrong path with this recent relationship.
So does line 1 mean once I have come back to my right path I will meet someone new or does it mean I just have to hang out with self for a while.

"When a companion comes, there is no fault. Returning back on the path, returning in seven days, it is beneficial to have a place to go..." (traditional)

I've always loved that phrase "Returning back on the path, returning in seven days" though I have but a vague notion of what it means.

Though you phrase it as either/or, I'd say the answer is "both" -- get back to yourself, and what is yours will come to you in its own time. If you're coming off an emotional roller-coaster, it's common sense to let things settle for a while rather than actively seeking some new emotional interest, which will most likely duplicate what you''ve just experienced. That's the bad side of "Return" -- simply recycling experiences with no real improvement or development.

b*b

 

[Trojina]

well 24.1 could also be referring to the guy you just ended with....wasn't there some possibility of you reconnecting ? Didn't you say he felt you were in too much hurry and he wanted things more at his pace ? I can't remember...but if thats still open a little bit maybe the break is the minor blip you return from.

I can't say what it refers to in particular only that it refers to a minor deviation soon rectified...although i have to say 24.1 never feels minor at the time !

 

[goddessliss]

Yes elias, letting things settle is always a good thing and I wasn't going to actively seek, just being curious about how I may meet someone new.

Hmm...Trojan, as for the guy returning....your right, anythings possible but I guess I would need a more concrete reading to say if thats going to happen and its still all a bit messy at the moment, I would love it to be him but I guess I just got to wait and see....easier said than done. Blah!
thks for your replying you two, have a fun day Melissa

 

[Trojina]

Yes elias, letting things settle is always a good thing and I wasn't going to actively seek, just being curious about how I may meet someone new.

Hmm...Trojan, as for the guy returning....your right, anythings possible but I guess I would need a more concrete reading to say if thats going to happen and its still all a bit messy at the moment, I would love it to be him but I guess I just got to wait and see....easier said than done. Blah!
thks for your replying you two, have a fun day Melissa

Well noone knows if its going to happen yet...it was very intense wasn't it so maybe he just needs a bit of a cool down time...we'll see

I love it when you say 'have a fun day' and I am just going to bed we are on opposite sides of the world. I don't want a fun day Melissa i want one of these all night

Night night, wish me good dreams !

 

[goddessliss]

Well then I wish you fun in your dreams but a peaceful, gentle night sleep x

 

[Trojina]

Well I'll be in the Clarity Astral Cafe Bar...might see you later

 

[goddessliss]

Well I have just found out the truth. This guy I was trying to have a relationship with was actually stringing another woman along at this same time he was doing that to me, no wonder things didn't make sense a lot of the time.
So while not quite devastated pretty shaken up that I was deceived but now I know it does allow me to return back to self a lot quicker and with my mind at ease. Hmm....wonder what my next question shld be?

blessings
Melissa

 

[Trojina]

sorry to hear that... I don't know why, maybe previous readings you did about him made me half suspect it wasn't over. Wonder if he will try to make ammends and woo you back. Maybe as he hadn't been seeing you very long he thought it was okay to also be seeing someone else ? The first weeks and months of a relationship people aren't always that clear about exclusivity. I don't think one can be ready for exlusivity straight away...theres a time when one still has options open. maybe it wasn't a real deliberate deception but more just early days between you...or maybe he did make promises which understandably would mean a different thing altogether

At least 24.1 shows you to be on track where you are, you're okay, in the right place, don't fret

 

[goddessliss]

The woman is actually an exgirlfriend and I suspect they had already made plans to meet up in Hawaii before I came on the scene, so possibly it all got a bit tricky for him which is why he got more and more short tempered as the time got closer and our relationship couldn't really stay where it was.
Gees the guy rang me 2 or 3 times a day, I was a big part of his daughters life or he would send me msges telling me he was missing me or thinking of me, but still I felt there was something not quite right so now I know.
Yep he could possibly contact me when he gets back cause from what I can work out, the trip was an employment award, as a lot of businesses seem to do now, free holidays etc. and he just wanted someone to go with and that's how it all happened.
Who knows what the future holds but for now I am going to try to live in the present moment and go with that the relationship is truly over and move on from there.
If he ever contacts me again I will live in the present moment then.
Thanku for your support in all of this, it helps me so much. Cyberspace is a wonderful thing, is it not.
I am still feeling a little vunerable isn't quite the right word but maybe a little bruised is a better word for it.
Hmm... not sure what time it is where you are so I am going to say have fun whatever you are doing, Trojan! x

 

[elias]

I am still feeling a little vunerable isn't quite the right word but maybe a little bruised is a better word for it.

And feeling a bit wiser, perhaps... Just wondering-- was there an indication of a third wheel in your readings leading up to this revelation?

 

[goddessliss]

ooh Elias yes - you are right!
http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?t=11442
but I thought it was already resolved at that time.

Hmm...he is totally out of control now and has turned his daughter against me as well, blaming me for all the angst, very, very sad for her and well sad for him really in the bigger picture, he must be a very unhappy person as he has so much anger inside of him.

But I feel very joyful and bit sad at the same time about it all.
Any further insights from that previous reading wld be much appreciated Elias.
I just went and got some IChing books from the library and when sharing a cuppa with my 72y.o. friend the other day I find she has a huge interest in the Yi too, so that has inspired me to study it more plus yours and others seemingly grasp on the whole thing.
have a beautiful time Melissa x

 

[elias]

Ouch -- looking over your link from October, it looks like icastes nailed that image of a third party. It is the kind of reading to file away for future reference...

Hopefully the child in this picture will get clear of the situation as soon as possible. If adults do stupid things, that's their business. It is very sad when they drag their kids into their psychodramas, though.

Happy reading on IC. If you haven't seen it, some heavy lifting here: http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?t=11532

g'night!

 

[goddessliss]

Ouch indeed, Elias. But today has provided me with a big 24.1 and that makes me very happy. Thks for the link and I think it will take me a couple of days to read it and then re-read and refer as I am going along. Goodnight for me now too. x