Surprise!!

[meganj]

Hey everyone....

So late last night a couple of friends came over, we stayed up really late... I drank a bit..
And well later today while hanging out my friend mentioned that my best friend might be pregnant, well after relentless joking I decided to go grab her a pregnancy test... We bought two so I could check as well because I haven't had my period in 5 weeks, I was getting cramps and pms like symptoms but I decided to make sure... So we took the pregnancy tests and.................
Well it turns out hers was negative and mine was positive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was so shocked..... Still am. A little worried. I took two tests.. I go for the official doctor pregnancy test Friday. I talked to my ex after and told him I took a pregnancy test and it was positive.
Idk what was going through his stupid male brain at the time but he asked me if I had slept with anyone... Omgg.. Idiot! Anyways we ended our call cuz he was busy, and he called me later he sounded happier and more supportive... So Friday I'll be going to the doctors.. I'm pretty sure I am, but I guess it'll be much more real to hear it from a professional and not a stick. I'm a little concerned though, because I was halfway through an herbol detox... I've also been to the gym lifting weights.. I just hope this doesn't effect the peanut

Not only that I'm worried about my finances.. And home I live in a duplex with two roommates (cousins) and I have no car.. I'm supposed to start a job in one week.

So many things to think about.. So I decided to ask

What does the future have in store for us? (Me and the child I am going to have)
Hex 58.1.6>6

Sounds happy but not without conflict and difficulties.

What's going to happen between me and Michael? (I still love him)
Hex 2.1>24

I know I can do this alone.. If I have to I will work until I can't anymore and save...

How does he feel about this?
Hex 11

Can me and him work through our problems together?
Hex 30.2.3.4.6>19

Then

Will the herbal detox effect the baby?
Hex 45

Oh boy am I scared....
:/

Megan

 

[Tim K]

How does he feel about this? Hex 11

He thinks it's a great chance to reunite, and to restore the relationship.

What's going to happen between me and Michael? (I still love him) Hex 2.1>24

Wilhelm: 1. If one steps on frost, solid ice is approaching.
The link between you grows stronger. Return to good ole times.

Can me and him work through our problems together? Hex 30.2.3.4.6>19

Transitional method:
30.2 → 14.3 (Great Possession) → 38.4(Setting apart) → 41.6(Decrease) → 19 (Approach)
30.2 Good fortune when you avoid extremes or excess. (Daniels)
I think yes you can, but you will have to restrain yourself, be more temperate.
14.3 A prince offers himself to the son of heaven. A lesser person cannot do this. (Wilhelm)
You will have to sacrifice your attitude and negativity if you have it.
He will respond and try make sacrifices too, for his son(child), for your 'Great Possession'.
38.4 Alone and isolated. Find someone you can trust. (Daniels)
You shouldn't struggle alone, find friends and support.
41.6 If one is increased without decreasing others, then there is no error. Perseverance brings good fortune. It is advantageous to undertake something. One obtains servants but doesn't have one's own home. (Wilhelm)
Decrease your opposition together, find a new approach.

19.0
Thus the noble is inexhaustible in his intention to teach and his endurance and protection of the people is limitless.
Be more tolerant to his faults, the reunion will help to give your son a better protection/environment.

It won't be easy, you will have to work, but I think there is a good chance. You will have to face the conflict (h6).

Will the herbal detox effect the baby? Hex 45 (Gathering Together)

Mm, I don't think so. You are repairing your body, sacrificing the pleasure of food for health.
Thus the noble renews his weapons, in order to meet the unforeseen.
Replace weapons with body and/or immune system.

58.6 gives a hint that you were not consciously conceiving the child, it was more of external influence than real desire. Oh well, nothing to do about that now.

 

[meganj]

Thanks

I'm so glad to hear he will be ok! And for some reason I'm really happy you keep saying he.. Boy?
I had a dream about this 9 days ago haha I dreamt I had a son
I really appreciate you doing this for me.. Now I feel really affirmed in what I should do.

I can't believe I'm going to be a mother!!

 

[mazaru]

Congratulations with your pregnancy meganj

 

[meganj]

Thank you!! I'm so happy