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Should I take my friends advice about approaching this girl?
Hexagram 56.5.6 to Hexagram 31

Line 5 sounds favorable that I try something and it doesn't work but something works out in the end. Line 6 is unfavorable and says I hurt myself? Then this changes into Hexagram 31 saying influence - not sure what that means but might mean my friend is an influence behing this.



Or maybe I should let things take their own path? [B]Hex 34.[/B]
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What should I do?
Hexagram 54.2.6 to Hexagram 38

Sounds like its best if I stay put in my place and not take action as 54. Line 2 hints I must persist but line 6 says opposite that there will be no progress in taking action. Hexagram 38 says opposites meaning opposition to being friends with this person.
 
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"What should I do?" 54.2.6 to 38

Youi should not approiach this person right now in my opinion. 38 says to me she is of a different mind set than you are. Either she is involved with somebody else, or doesn't see you as a romantic interest, or maybe just isn't compatible with you. 54 here stinks, and have been there myself):. It means you are in an inferior position, and line 2 suggests to me, despite your loyalty, she does not see you. Line 6 I'm thinking points to people just being superficial, that maybe she has given you indication she is interested, but was just playing a social role. Trying to be polite. Doesn't indicate that she dislikes you in my opinion, but just doesn't put you up on a pedestal for sure or hoping for a romantic -involvement. Just my thoughts on this.

Another possibility here is that the Yi is pointing out your situation, and then line 6 may be saying that you need to show something real, be less superficial, more real with this person béfore you even consider approaching them about romantic involvement. That coul be too.

I'm not sure if line 2 means you should persist in the relationship. I don't think the Y- would suggest you stick be someone if there isn't an equal exchange.

I don't have any experience receiving these lines, so these are just my thoughts based on the text and what you wrote. Hope this helps you figure it out.:)
 

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My friends pressuring me to appraoch her but for me its all about timing and the vibe. I see her in class before I graduated and she gives me hot and cold so I dont know what to do. But I graduated, I happened to be on campus when she saw and I saw her going through a door but didn't saw "hi" because its been 10 months since we've seen each other and it was unexpected.
 

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Then is it in my best interest to forget about her?

Hexagram 48.4 to Hexagram 28.

48 indicates something here is in the process of being repaired (I'm not sure what) and its best to devote my time to spiritual improvement instead of thinking about her. Hexagram 28 I am not sure about but indicates there is something in excess (maybe I am putting too much weight on this issue my perspective)?
 
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