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Calumet and I are kind of in the same boat. We have both divested ourselves of relationships that did not make us happy (her with Baldy, me with my husband) and are now hoping to move on to something better. I had hoped that something would be Thomas, but I am not so blind as to not realize that that may never happen. I am trying to be open to whatever the universe brings, trusting that it will be the right thing.

Taking a tip from one of Calumet's posts I asked what I should look for in a partner and got 57.5.6 to 46. Interesting, since I recently asked what the future holds for me and Thomas and got 57 unchanging. This seems to be my hex of the month now
Anyhoo, I also asked what approach I should take and got 64.3.4 to 18. Since line 3 indicates a need for helpers, and I have gotten indications like that in other readings recently I asked where I would find these helpers, 56 unchanging. That is the one that really has me stumped.

Looking at the hexes it would seem like maybe it isn't time to do anything yet, but the moving lines do not seem to support that. I think I see some caution here not to jump into anything, but then there is the thing about completing the transition and making a change. Any ideas???
 

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Seeker, I'm flattered that you were able to make some use of my question. And I hope this doesn't come across harshly. But I've said this to you before, and here it is again in another form and for what it's worth: You need to be alone for awhile. It's miserably painful--people want and need to be in close pair bonds, or whatever you choose to call them. The mind and body rebel hellishly against broken bonds. But I believe that going through the pain of separation is a necessary part of preparing properly for the next connection.

I speak from experience. I have been newly divorced and immediately out looking. How many words can you think of that mean disaster? I have watched my barely-grown daughter drag herself kicking and screaming from a long relationship, only to end up with another man a few months later. She's happy now, which she certainly was not in the previous relationship; but this new guy came along way too soon and I fear she'll pay a price down the line. As for me, at the moment, the mere thought of getting to know a man and coming to care for him, makes everything hurt. Incredibly, I'm beginning to feel sorry for Baldy, out chasing girls. Among many things he'll never understand is that sometimes you have to stop and just hurt for awhile.

About a week ago I had a dog, our long-time family pet who was old and very ill, put down. My 12-year-old is clamoring for a puppy, but she knows she'll have to wait. I can't stand the thought of another dog, either. Poor kid; that's just the way her Mom is. Somewhere along the line I've learned that you can't detour around grief and loss. The only way through it, is through it. Not really what you want to hear, and not really what I want to hear either. But there it is.

56 is about being a traveler, a wanderer, having no fixed abode. In other contexts I might interpret your cast differently; but right now, 56 is exactly where you are emotionally. And right now, it's exactly where you belong.
 

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Seeker, I cast myself a 56 unchanging last night. Having written the above about an hour earlier, I had to laugh.
 
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That is kind of ironic. Oddly enough I have only just now started to get that one. I have been asking since my husband decided he was leaving if there was any hope for me and Thomas and have always gotten wait and perseverance, joy a couple of times. He is really the only person I am interested in being with. Other than that, I'm not looking for anyone. The only reason I even asked about anyone else was I got a couple of readings that I weren't sure if they were talking about him specifically or a romantic interest in general. Odd that I get 56 when I ask about a general or new interest, but not when I ask about him. Guess I'll just have to see what the future brings. Some days I feel lonely and cry myself to sleep, but other days, like today, I focus on other things. My parents are visiting this weekend, so I have been cleaning my house. While I was doing do, I was thinking about all the things I want to do to fix it up to reflect my personality now that my husband is gone. One thing about living alone (except for my daughter of course), no one to have to compromise with. I do allow my daughter some input, and there are times when she has pretty good taste. I let her pick the decor for the bathroom we share, figuring I would end up with some animal or hello kitty theme, but she picked this red, greed and gold sort of medieval looking pattern. It's beautiful. Go figure
 

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