telling them and 43.1.6 >44

[anemos]

There is something will take place in few days ( a health matter) and I wonder a lot if I have to share it with my nieces. More or less they know, but a couple of days, when they visited me, I felt them very confused. I know that others trying to hide them things and I know that they give them faulse informations. Our relationship is based on mutual trust and a part of me feels not comfortable because i hide them the truth yet the other part thinKs that I'll make them worring.

My wish is to share some details with them, but I don't wish that cause them unnecessary worries so I asked Yi. "what do i need to know about my thought telling them? ". I got 43.1.6> 44.

Looking at LiSe's Yi, my impression is the I can tell them , in a thoughtfull way. And 44 , perhaps is about my own anxiety. Yet, looking at other translations, seems that its not a good idea. Also the 1-6 line pattern, perhaps indicated that , a "forget about it" thing

Wonder how you would read those lines ?

 

[pocossin]

43 is about announcement.

In Hilary's I Ching:

43.1
Vigour in the leading foot.
Going on without control means making mistakes.

And you maintained control of the information when your nieces were with you.

43.6
Not calling out.
In the end, pitfall.


You should tell them more.


44 (imo) is about writing. You could send cards to your nieces, thanking them for the visit, telling them how hard it is to talk about this health matter, and explaining the situation a little better.

 

[anemos]

43 is about announcement.

In Hilary's I Ching:

43.1
Vigour in the leading foot.
Going on without control means making mistakes.

And you maintained control of the information when your nieces were with you.

Yes ! i can see your point.
Looked again at my reading and thought perhaps 44 is about what the image says.

THE IMAGE

Under heaven, wind:
The image of COMING TO MEET.
Thus does the prince act when disseminating his commands
And proclaiming them to the four quarters of heaven.

Thank you Tom

 

[rosada]

Just wanting to add the comment that I too see 44 as spreading ideas around, but also that it is a warning that this is how rumors get started, and therefore the importance of being very clear about the information you are sharing otherwise the unconscious, the powerful maiden, will give it all sorts of unintended interpretation.

43.1
Tell them only as much as you are sure is absolutely necessary.
43.6
Don't mention anything that would plant seeds of paranoia.

Best wishes for your good health.
-Rosada

 

[anemos]

Thanks Rosada for your interprentation and wishes

Actually is not a hard situation and I thought I had explain them well but when i saw them the other day, I suspected and they confirmed that that before coming in my home there were given a long"don't do this, don't ask this " list and the little one told me something that broke my heart, and she started crying.

I'm almost sure that this reading confirms my impression that they have received vague information , so a need to make more clear to them what is all about and remind them that everything they want to know they will have to discuss it with me.

Tomorow will check with a counselor i know, if what i have in mind to tell them is apt and then will talk to them.

thanks again, both of you, for your help
:bows:

 

[rosada]

Ah! So you're thinking the 43.6 has already happened, that the vague information has already led to weird interpretations. That fits with my feeling that the more you use it, the I Ching stops telling the future and starts describing only the present - thus training us to develop free will.
Thanks for the details!
Rosada