Thats wierd...

[seeker]

so got the flowers from my guy, sent an email thanking and explaining that I could not get the webcam he wanted me to due to security issues, cant afford the other programs you need to prevent worms from invading your system and using the cam to spy on you. Did not hear from him all day yesterday, this morning found message sent 4:00 am stating he has arrived in Africa and wanting to know if I got the flowers.

Still having some doubts, so asked Yi what should I do now? 45.3.5 to 62

Asked what I need to know about this relationship? 62.3.5 to 45

hence the wierd part, never had that happen before, not sure what that means

Asked what the danger is in this relationhip, not sure if it is to do with him or my own doubts, 7.3.5 to 48

This is the first reading on this Ive done where I did not think it was very positive. Also, I noticed that the moving lines in all 3 answers were 3 and 5. Wondering if there was significance to that. So, any ideas on this one??? BTW, I am getting 45 and 48 a lot on this one, which usually means something. Just not sure what in this case. Relationship readings are always difficult for me, too much emotion involved. Too easy to see what I want to see.

 

[jte]

*Bonk*

=)

- Jeff

 

[seeker]

thanks a lot

 

[clarissa]

Seeker,

I'm a beginner...but I'll give it a try. Tell me what you think:

Wilhelm's commentary on 45.3 speaks about being an outsider and finding a patron to help you get "inside". It sounds something like...I want desperately to work for company X so I find a way to start dating a top manager there. I'm not sure how that would apply to your question though.

Line 5 also seems to be about hooking up with someone because of his status...not because of his merit or truly WANTING to be with him.

There is the possibility I guess that the Yi is saying that perhaps this man can offer you something beneficial...because of his relatively high status. Travelling around the world on business is usually a sign of some financial security, a certain level of power etc. However, it could also be warning you NOT to do this...not to get involved for base motives. However, you question was...what should I do now?

62.3 seems to be about overconfidence. Perhaps it's a warning to always keep your wits about you...even if receiving a lot of sweet talk, flowers etc.

Line 5 is odd. I've received it a few times and Wilhelm's translation doesn't help at all. "Hits him who is in the cave"? What is that? The commentary speaks about getting helpers for some task because one can't do it alone.

I'm not going to attempt the last question because that hex is one I find extremely confusing.

 

[yellowknife]

Lots of times 45 for me has seemed to refer to actually meeting up with someone in person- gathering together.

Usually I think because in person we were then able to "gather together" all our thoughts, feelings and impressions about each other.

62, 3 for me has usually meant a justified warning about someone without wholly positive intentions towards me.

I can hear your alarm bells ringing about this man, and although you may have trust issues, it certainly seems that checking him out properly is the only way to proceed. That can't happen til you gather all your impressions about him. And really, maybe that can't happen properly except in person.

Good luck.

 

[seeker]

Thanks, it just seemed so wierd, that the first seemed positive and the next one not so much, almost a contradiction. And the fact that the second reading was the first one reversed, then the pattern of the same moving lines in all 3. I dont believe in coincidences, so the whole reading really made me sit up and take notice, just wasnt sure what to take notice of. At this point I am proceeding very cautiously, have backed off. Last night we spent most of the time playing virtual pool. I kicked his butt

Might get some info soon, as he wants me to send him a care package. He said he would give me his fed ex acct so I would not have to pay for it, and obviously I will have to have an address to send it to. He is supposed to be home in two weeks, so will see what happens. Interesting take on 45, I never thought about it being meeting in person, but thats a good point.

From what both of you have said, I think this is saying I really wont be satisfied until I see him in person, and no manner of support or warnings will really solve that. But I need to go slow, flesh out if there is even anything to get excited about. I told him last night I would like to slow down because we discovered several things last night that I liked and he didnt. So, maybe it is just a warning that even though he seems wonderful and really is a nice guy, we wont have enough in common to carry it through longterm. Dont want to get real heavy only to have it turn out it wont last, we would both get hurt by that. both lines of 7 talk of getting rid of false images (Karcher), but maybe the false image is a fantasy we have created about each other and not necessarily anything we are intentionally being false about. thanks again for the help, Ive got some different ideas about it now I want to think on. Though, of course any other ideas here are always welcome

You know, two heads better than one, 5 heads better than four, and so on...

 

[seeker]

Something else occurred to me. Jeff, I deserved that bonk. Although I have been asking the questions of what I do or need to know, I realized today that my intention, what I really wanted was for Yi to tell me the result. I wanted to know if this would be happily ever after or I should not waste my time. Of course, Yi is not going to tell me that, and maybe that is part of what I have been getting, that I need to follow this through, no shortcuts, no instant answers. Perhaps part of the reason I keep getting 45 is saying keep gathering with him, ie keep talking to him and finding out about him, let him find out about me. That is the only way to know if there is any potential here or not. I am not always successful, but I do try to keep my questions out of the result area, forgot that I have to keep my intentions out of there too