The 37.2 marriage

[foreverthine]

Hello all,

I've been dating a man for the past few months and we have started to talk about a potential marriage. The relationship has been a bit rocky due to some trust issues and a few obstacles set in motion by one of his children, who is afraid to lose her father. We have separated and recently reconciled, thanks to some much needed space and the help of a good therapist who is guiding us through the challenges. I have asked the question: What would our marriage be like and received hex 37.2. I can't figure out if that is a good one. I asked if 37.2 was good and received 29.2.4.

I have the opportunity to join him in another city for a week where he works because I work remotely and can tend to my own matters while he spends time in the office. I also asked if I should go and received 19.6.

Outcome if I go: 1.2.3>25
Outcome if I do not: 44.2.5

Any help would be appreciated. We are at the start of getting to know each other again and after everything that has transpired I am hesitant to jump back in although we love each other and have recommitted to our relationship. I asked the initial marriage question at the start of our relationship so it may be time that I ask again due to the changes we both have undertaken. Any help would be appreciated.

 

[rosada]

IMO:
37.2 says the wife attends to the matters of the home under the protection of a strong man. A very good omen. I think it's saying you'd be very busy in a good way.
29.2.4 also reads to me like a positive response with the added comment that you don't need to rush. Take things one day at a time and resolve issues before you jump to the next level of commitment.

As to the trip, 19.6 sounds like you should review the invitation. Do you feel like you're clearly invited, that your presence is clearly desired? Not that he needs to beg you, but maybe it's important you not think he's offering a romantic holiday - like 1.1.2.3 - 25 sounds like you should only go if YOU aren't expecting someone else to look after you. 25. reads to me like you'd have to be pretty self-sufficient, although you say you are okay with that. If you decide not to go 44.5 sounds like there would be another more suitable invitation, opportunity down the road.

 

[foreverthine]

Rosada,

This is brilliant and so much appreciated. It is all exactly where we are and what I've been thinking about it.

Many, many thanks.