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priya

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I have employed a replacement caregiver for my elderly mother. My older domestic staff seem to be ganging up against the financial terms of the temporary help and I feel like I am being/and have been played by my housekeeper, Bahadur of 15 years. I feel he is instigating and creating new expectations. I depend a lot on him in terms of running and looking after my home. My question was:

what best to do about the financial situation with the domestic help ?
Yi's answer, 18.2.3.6 to 2.

I am feeling anxious about interpreting this is my gut says it is saying I should change my entire staff. The uncertainty of being able to manage my dog and the house without Bahadur is very stressful. On the other hand I also feel it is saying keep the destination in mind and wait?

Please help
Thanks
PR
 

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My older domestic staff seem to be ganging up against the financial terms of the temporary help

Hi,
could you clarify this?
I don't comprehend it at all.

Are you describing a reduction in the current staffs pay?
 

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Speak to him about this, with the intent of hearing him with concern for his well being. Put yourself in his shoes as you listen. If the situation can be healed by yeilding to his suggestions as to what can be done about what he feels is corrupt from his perspective, he will in return yeild to you. If he can't clearly state how he feels and what would help the situation, he is corrupt. If his terms cannot be met, maybe replacing your staff will bring harmony.
 
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what best to do about the financial situation with the domestic help ?
18.2.3.6 > 2


18.2 - there's something wrong with your mother that you just can't guess. Either a character problem, or a heart problem. Find the middle ground with your staff.
18.3 - this shows proceeding too energetically and too strictly towards your staff. If you do this, then:
18:6 - your loyal staff will leave you.
And 2, you'll be left empty-handed.

So to avoid your staff leaving you, avoid the above scenario. Find out about your mother - does she have a foul character? Does she have a heart condition you don't know about? Your staff are probably putting in a lot more work than you know. And all of a sudden you're paying more to a stranger to deal with a woman they know nothing about. I'd say pay your existing staff more because they are the ones who fully know the situation and how to deal with it.
 

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Hi,

The temporary caregiver is getting higher pay than the older one and now he is expressing that it has upset everyone.
Thanks
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The temporary caregiver is getting higher pay than the older one and now he is expressing that it has upset everyone.

And somehow the fact that someone who has devoted 15 years of their life to your family is unhappy about this is surprising to you?

Really?
And now you are considering sacking them all? Terrible.

The 18 may not be where you think it is.
 

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Moss Elk, you are so off base. Better we leave it at that. Thank you everyone else.
 

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When I got this exact reading one week ago, it was in regards to something I was doing wrong, and then I followed another to lead me in Correcting it.

So, no.
I am not off base at all.
And I won't trouble you again.
 

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what best to do about the financial situation with the domestic help ?
18.2.3.6 > 2

The best thing to do about the financial situation with the domestic help is to

Hex 18: Face the poison in the situation and look at the needs of all to bring about a win / win situation
line2 - put yourself in other people's shoes, see things from their perspective and deal with yours first and then others' behaviours that are causing or contributing the discord
line3 - the old way of things and the old authority has been overturned, there is no going back, something is coming out of the woodwork here and needs to be fully brought into the open
line6 - when you can see into the matter more clearly and are not so easily afflicted by the ghosts that abide in the situation then you will be able to address the situation honourably for all concerned

Hex 2: To be successful here you will be best suited to adjust your stance and give way to the newness of this situation.

Good Luck
 

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