Theft 16 unchanging

[becalm]

Some money went missing in the share house I live in and I was accused of possibly taking it. This left me shattered for a lot of reasons but within 15 minutes the money was found but no apology was forthcoming for a number of hours.
Obviously now the trust is very shaky so would it better if I moved out?

What if I continue to build a home in this house Hexagram 16 unchanging
Well I don’t think I couldn’t ask for a more positive response to stay

What about the issue of trust now
Hexagram 39 unchanging
I don’t really understand this answer - look at things in a different way/go a different route in this??
When said person apologised he said I know it wasn't you and I trust you 100% no 1,000% but to be honest it's left a sour taste in my mouth.

Incidentally I was accused of similar in a completely different situation with a completely different person 12 months ago but again it was proved it had nothing to do with me but that was a 'romance' I walked away from.
Also incidentally this is the second time a male has had to apologise to me for a wrongdoing in the last 10 days.

 

[moss elk]

What about the issue of trust now
Hexagram 39 unchanging

I don’t really understand this answer

I sense that you are focused on the injustice of the experience, the accusation, and have a feeling of being disrespected.

39 says to turn around, and go about it differently. Work towards Harmony rather than any 'debt' you may feel owed to you.
With time, and without an insistance by you, you may eventually be offered a heartfelt apology. But don't hang your hopes on it, because 1-it may not come, and 2-it isn't necessary for you to get over it.

 

[becalm]

I sense that you are focused on the injustice of the experience, the accusation, and have a feeling of being disrespected.

39 says to turn around, and go about it differently. Work towards Harmony rather than any 'debt' you may feel owed to you.
With time, and without an insistance by you, you may eventually be offered a heartfelt apology. But don't hang your hopes on it, because 1-it may not come, and 2-it isn't necessary for you to get over it.

Not so much the Injustice more that we had such a lovely dynamic between us I was so hurt about it all but I’m happy to give the benefit of the doubt It’s more if I’m able to trust it won’t happen again!!

 

[becalm]

The person who accused me did apologise more than once and we became quite close but then things did an about face about a month later via a third party so I moved out within 24 hours.