This situation is driving me NUTS

[Miki123]

So i have posted before about this but I can’t find the post (many months ago).
It’s about this guy which tried to sleep with me some years ago, I refused bc I wanted something serious, he didn’t, his way too big ego was hurt and literally the next week got into a (sort of) relationship for a year or so.
For the recent months I realised, as I see him quite frequently, that despite the fact he was a dick I am still sexually interested in him (and I no longer seek a relationship at the moment).
I swear that when we see each other I can feel the attraction (and he even got super close a number of times). So having literally nothing to lose, I just told him I want to finish what we started. He seemed very excited and said he’d call me when he comes back in the city (in a few days) and is home alone (he shares a room with a friend). Two months have passed and nothing. He is driving me crazy as I know that he’s attracted to me but I don’t understand why doesn’t he act!!
I tried to give him a hint that some time has passed, and no response.
I asked I ching what would he tell if I invited him to a friend’s house, with another couple for a drink. I got 55 unchanging (abundance).
What is your take? I can take it either positive or negative, from what I have read, and I am lost.

 

[Trojina]

So i have posted before about this but I can’t find the post (many months ago).

Maybe you meant this one click here, you never went back to it.

To find previous threads click on your name, then on your profile then go to 'latest started threads' you can see all your threads and all your posts there.

Looks like people are asking for an update on this one too click here

 

[Miki123]

Yes, that one. The only thing in that thread I was wrong about is that I said he was still seeing that girl, but he wasn’t.
I just seek some closure in the sense that I want things either to happen either not. There have been numerous situations in between that kept me off the edge and this is why I still think about it.

 

[Trojina]

Well you need to go back to that to respond to those who responded.

This one also click here

If you don't go back to previous threads there's no point in answering you since we get nothing back, we don't learn anything if we don't know what happened. It's easy to find your old threads as explained above.

 

[Miki123]

Yes, that one. The only thing in that thread I was wrong about is that I said he was still seeing that girl, but he wasn’t.
I just seek some closure in the sense that I want things either to happen or not. There have been numerous situations in between that kept me off the edge and this is why I still think about it.
I will probably invite him and take his answer (or lack of it) for good, but I was curious of your take on 55.

 

[diamanda]

what would he tell if I invited him to a friend’s house, with another couple for a drink. I got 55 unchanging (abundance)
He will say no.
I wonder why is this guy so important to you for so long, if it's just for sex and no relationship is possible. If this is already driving you nuts, what will happen if you do have sex and then he disappears again? Wanting 'closure' from someone you had no relationship with is strange - people fancy others sexually all the time, the majority of times it's not consummated and no explanations needed from either side.

 

[marybluesky]

Hello Miki!

I asked I ching what would he tell if I invited him to a friend’s house, with another couple for a drink. I got 55 unchanging (abundance).

"Expansion of Awareness means progress and development. When the king is enlightened there is no need to fear a change. Let him be as the sun at noon."
I don't exactly know what he'll say but at least your awareness of the situation develops. You'll be enlightened. There is no need to worry- or your worries will disappear after contacting him. Be your best and invite this guy.

 

[Miki123]

what would he tell if I invited him to a friend’s house, with another couple for a drink. I got 55 unchanging (abundance)
He will say no.
I wonder why is this guy so important to you for so long, if it's just for sex and no relationship is possible. If this is already driving you nuts, what will happen if you do have sex and then he disappears again? Wanting 'closure' from someone you had no relationship with is strange - people fancy others sexually all the time, the majority of times it's not consummated and no explanations needed from either side.

We actually met ~3 months after I asked this question. It was all average and I got to know him better and didn't like what I discovered. For me it really was a closure because that meeting convinced me I really don't feel anything special for him as I thought. I don't think this outcome relates to the reading because the question here was different- I decided to not invite him then.