to confess?

[post-snow]

hello. i have been seeing a guy i really like but we are still friends. the situation is becoming tense for me because i have another one interested in me, who is less educated and less fun but he is okay and he will not wait forever. shall i confess my feelings to the main guy? i got 13.3 to 25.

• He hides his arms in the thick grass: because of the strength of his opponent. For three years he makes no demonstration: how can he do anything?----does it mean not to confess and just wait?

 

[diamant]

shall i confess my feelings to the main guy? 13.3 > 25
I agree with you, don't confess. Cast not looking super great about this main guy I'm afraid. He's your enemy. He will wage a secret kind of war against you for years (!) and he doesn't look interested in being intimate (25).

 

[post-snow]

shall i confess my feelings to the main guy? 13.3 > 25
I agree with you, don't confess. Cast not looking super great about this main guy I'm afraid. He's your enemy. He will wage a secret kind of war against you for years (!) and he doesn't look interested in being intimate (25).

war? are you sure? i have no problem with the person not interested in a closer relationship but enemy and war dont seem likely

 

[bologna_tendra]

13.3 doesn't read good - he is hiding weapons in the thicket! This could be something like you get hurt after a one-night stand for example, when later on you see him with someone else. Who knows? Whereas the second guy we can say has acted like a man and told you how he feels - sounds like guy no.1 is either (1. a player, 2. a pussy, or 3. not interested). maybe throw the coins for the second guy and ask what you need to know about him.

 

[post-snow]

i did and i got

Hexagram 44, Coupling​

but

Changing Lines​

Line 4​

'In this basket, no fish. Rising up, pitfall.'

Line 5​

'Using willow to wrap melons.
Containing a thing of beauty,
It comes falling from its source in heaven.'
changes to 18, corruption, now i am confused

 

[bologna_tendra]

If confused maybe the best action is no action and allow things to manifest themselves more.

 

[eyedrian]

I get the vibe that you don't really like any of these guys

 

[diamant]

but enemy and war dont seem likely

The line says hiding weapons and mentions 3 years. If you read threads on this forum (and other forums), you will see how some people play vicious games against others in the love arena. And yes, for years is quite common.

 

[post-snow]

If confused maybe the best action is no action and allow things to manifest themselves more.

this seems reasonable

 

[post-snow]

The line says hiding weapons and mentions 3 years. If you read threads on this forum (and other forums), you will see how some people play vicious games against others in the love arena. And yes, for years is quite common.

i do know people can be horrible to each other in this field, it just does not seem likely now. i might be wrong of course!