to roommate or not to roommate?

[kdedeaux4]

By total chance today I met up with a lady regarding employment and happen to discover she needs a roommate. i have a place way out in the country by myself and I like it. The alone time is mostly therapeutic for me...and it's very remote, so I'm definitely *alone*! At times though, I do wish I were closer to the city for simplicity purposes and even occasionally, I rather wish I wasn't so very solitary all the time (i don't know anyone in this area yet for socializing and such).
It would be about the same cost financially, so in a sense, I'd be trading down for the same money in that I'd have very little solitude there (it's as small as my place, but it would be shared by her and her young son and myself), but I'd have the convenience of being closer to activities and people. Roommates kinda scare me though..gosh, it's hard to live with people...
So I asked the iching if this was a good idea (moving in with this lady).
Response: 14.2.6 -->55
This seems like a truly positive response! especially 14.6! But line 2 and the relating hex are throwing me off from the overall picture.
i would appreciate any thoughts or experiences with this response hate to give up the place I have..as finding something I even can afford on my own right now was quite lucky...it would be a risk... It's very tempting..and yet very scary too....

Thank you

namaste':bows:
~kd

 

[ginnie]

The reading is favorable for moving. 14.2 says you have a large wagon for loading and a place to go, and what could that mean except a moving van?

To get the bigger picture, I'd ask another question, like, "What will happen if I stay where I'm living now?" The thing is, people don't move unless they have a good reason. Since you say you find roommates fairly scary, you would definitely need an awfully good reason to move from the affordable situation you have now.

 

[tigerintheboat]

So I asked the iching if this was a good idea (moving in with this lady).
Response: 14.2.6 -->55
This seems like a truly positive response! especially 14.6! But line 2 and the relating hex are throwing me off from the overall picture.
~kd

Line 2 literally can refer to a moving truck, or a credit card line big enough to undertake whatever is in question. But figuratively, Line 2 indicates that you have the means or capacity to make the move, the big chariot is ready and available--as long as you have a direction to go, it is no mistake. And line 6 does mean that the protection of heaven is operating on your behalf with regard to this move.

But I would not let this reading talk me into moving. The key is whether you have the direction to go. Decide whether you want to move closer to activities and can be without your solitude. If you want that, then the move should go well, and the situation will like be a positive one.

Tiger

 

[goddessliss]

Line 2 literally can refer to a moving truck, or a credit card line big enough to undertake whatever is in question. But figuratively, Line 2 indicates that you have the means or capacity to make the move, the big chariot is ready and available--as long as you have a direction to go, it is no mistake. And line 6 does mean that the protection of heaven is operating on your behalf with regard to this move.

But I would not let this reading talk me into moving. The key is whether you have the direction to go. Decide whether you want to move closer to activities and can be without your solitude. If you want that, then the move should go well, and the situation will like be a positive one.

Tiger

I'm sorta with Tiger on this one - Line 2 sounds to me that you have the capacity to do whatever you're comfortable with and Line 6 whatever you do is going to be successful.
To be honest I feel this reading is more about your spiritual self and what your love of solitude brings you. You can move forward within.

- Liss

 

[dragona]

well, started to write something close to last two responses but did not came through. just because there is something you can do, does not mean you have to do it. you are in possession of your own private commodities, moving in with a woman and her son may turn out a significant difference, maybe a bit overwhelming a change. weigh your pros and cons, the urge may be to move, but i was told that 14.6 is kind of telling that things are all right as they are even though we may feel that something very important is missing...good luck, d.

 

[kdedeaux4]

Thank you all so very much! What beautiful and insightful thoughts you've given me!
After much reflection, I'm choosing not to move. It's too scary for me and I'm too selfish maybe...I really value my peace and my space too much to take such a scary plunge right now!
Namaste' Blessings to you all for your time and thoughts