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Hi all,
A recent (2 weeks ago) exs birthday is tomorrow. Currently we are quiet with each other, giving each other time and space to heal and be apart etc. There is still a lot of love between us, but we had an unhealthy relationship. We have been in touch a little and its been fine but in the last week seems we have both decided to just be quiet for a bit. Anyway, it is his birthday tmr and I am conflicted as to whether to get in touch or whether to just remain quiet. I don't want to be hurtful and I don't want to cause a drama or ruin his day in either way, either by getting in touch or not (by whch I mean a text).
Got conflicting advice fromYi:
Please advise me with regards x's birthday:
18.2.4 > 56
....not sure what the corruption is...if this is saying like there's the corruption (the unhealthy relationship) and so its better not to go there and to break free to a new space 56 (i.e. don't get in touch) or if it's like I (the mother??) and him (the father) are both corrupt in some way so it's not a good idea, or what.
Also read the following interpretation:
Line 2 Neglect of mother = sensitivity needed. Changes to (52) Keeping Still.Emotional responses have gotten out of control and sensitivity is needed. A relationship is delicate and applying remedy drastically might wound. Through weakness an imbalance has occurred. Someone is choosing not to act for the time being. Give the situation gentle consideration by Keeping Still and allow for the space needed for reflection.
ANd
Line 4: Setting right what was spoiled by father = seeing what is wrong leads to praise. Changes to (50) Cauldron. Ignoring decay leads to problems because you’d rather not rock the boat. Perhaps your respect for another has left you unable to speak up. The Cauldron can show co-dependency or giving your power away. Eventually this will lead to humiliation. Better to rectify the situation and speak up. The weakness is obvious but to discuss what is wrong without remedying it is futile. You will be respected for speaking your mind.
18 is corruption....but also healing?
hmm...
ANd then for clarification I asked:
So is not getting in touch the best idea then:
17.1 > 45
'An official has a change of heart' - gathering together. ?? Or is this that even if I don't contact tmr at a later point there will be a change of heart?! (Either mine or his) and this will lead to some sort of gathering (not necessarily romantic but a meeting in some way).
These kind of seem to contradict each other! This is as much about me trying to understand the iching as wanting an answer so any thought appreicated..
cheers
A recent (2 weeks ago) exs birthday is tomorrow. Currently we are quiet with each other, giving each other time and space to heal and be apart etc. There is still a lot of love between us, but we had an unhealthy relationship. We have been in touch a little and its been fine but in the last week seems we have both decided to just be quiet for a bit. Anyway, it is his birthday tmr and I am conflicted as to whether to get in touch or whether to just remain quiet. I don't want to be hurtful and I don't want to cause a drama or ruin his day in either way, either by getting in touch or not (by whch I mean a text).
Got conflicting advice fromYi:
Please advise me with regards x's birthday:
18.2.4 > 56
....not sure what the corruption is...if this is saying like there's the corruption (the unhealthy relationship) and so its better not to go there and to break free to a new space 56 (i.e. don't get in touch) or if it's like I (the mother??) and him (the father) are both corrupt in some way so it's not a good idea, or what.
Also read the following interpretation:
Line 2 Neglect of mother = sensitivity needed. Changes to (52) Keeping Still.Emotional responses have gotten out of control and sensitivity is needed. A relationship is delicate and applying remedy drastically might wound. Through weakness an imbalance has occurred. Someone is choosing not to act for the time being. Give the situation gentle consideration by Keeping Still and allow for the space needed for reflection.
ANd
Line 4: Setting right what was spoiled by father = seeing what is wrong leads to praise. Changes to (50) Cauldron. Ignoring decay leads to problems because you’d rather not rock the boat. Perhaps your respect for another has left you unable to speak up. The Cauldron can show co-dependency or giving your power away. Eventually this will lead to humiliation. Better to rectify the situation and speak up. The weakness is obvious but to discuss what is wrong without remedying it is futile. You will be respected for speaking your mind.
18 is corruption....but also healing?
hmm...
ANd then for clarification I asked:
So is not getting in touch the best idea then:
17.1 > 45
'An official has a change of heart' - gathering together. ?? Or is this that even if I don't contact tmr at a later point there will be a change of heart?! (Either mine or his) and this will lead to some sort of gathering (not necessarily romantic but a meeting in some way).
These kind of seem to contradict each other! This is as much about me trying to understand the iching as wanting an answer so any thought appreicated..
cheers