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How should I behave with X? --> 10.3>1
What I really represent for X? --> 31.1.3.4>3
what should be the correct behaviour to adopt with her, in order to be happy:
50.1.5>1.
So, independent of the person involved, you've had an insight into the feelings you want to experience more of. You can be honest now in knowing what you seek. The uncertainty in her own life on her real feelings is not ideal. To have what is healthy, there has to be truth, even if that truth involves much lamenting.
My thought is that if you are clear with her about your very real feelings, including your rational override, you give information for her to mature and work with. Not yet though, give it a little more time. Maybe write a letter so to give her space to digest, and see what she says, in return. Too many men don't say why they withdraw and women offer in maligned ways. Do the world a favor and yourself and her and be truthful. What have you got to lose other than illusions of attraction.
But be truthful.
Hi, I'm not really sure I've got this right for you, but if this was my reading, I would probably be tempted to read it as - this big thing for you will be a small progress overall. Perhaps the whole process of writing the letter/email will reduce some of the long built anxiety you have about this situation?
I wouldn't read too much into getting hex 31 as your relating hexagram, punkarre. Here at Clarity we often point out that the relating hexagram is how you are related to your own question. In other words, the relating hex is often simply the context of your question and not at all the result. On occasion the second hexagram can be the result, but more often it is just the background. And the fact is that right now you are still being influenced by her.
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