Trying to understand an influence.

[em ching]

Hi all,

I got 1.3 twice in the last couple of days, when asking about a person, which I think speaks for itself - I probably excessively think of him and relate certain new understandings in relationships, and life - to him. I guess I'm still trying to unerstand the nature of the relationship and how, and why he influenced me so much. Though not apparent now.

I am at peace with the reality of the situation, and I know relationships shouldn't be probed too much with the Yi - because what will be will be - if it's right it just is and I am aware of that But with the detachment I now feel, I'd be really grateful for some help with these readings.

Is there now a void between us?
57.1,2,3,5,6 > 24
Excessively trying to influence has led to a return to the self, or would you read that as the relationship will?

Is he going to get in touch?
49.1 > 31.1
I don't mind either way now and the more time goes on the more I start to think he was just a learning curve But I feel grateful for having met him as it led to discovering good new things etc.. but how should this be read. Thoughts of action not executed? Or perhaps indicating I am gearing towards a change in perception - perhaps towards the decrease of his presence in my thoughts?
Ahh.. perhaps a desire to rid an obligation?

How important is my existence to him?
52.1,2,4 > 14
Hmm... seems good but perhaps this is all a matter of timing etc.

Thanks for reading any impressions would be good because my head still lacks clearage.
:bows:

 

[willowfox]

Is there now a void between us?
57.1,2,3,5,6 > 24

Void as in distant galaxies, no.

Is he going to get in touch?
49.1 > 31

Not for a while, as he seems to be getting his act together.

How important is my existence to him?
52.1,2,4 > 14

Precious

 

[em ching]

That's really nice to hear Even if not so true, to feel that is good, because it's kind of where I'm coming from... despite not hearing much from him, I know he's away, perhaps unsettled etc etc.. I feel completely at peace with how it is and not wanting (I got a lot of hex 27 with him which I think reflected my need to change what I wanted from him, because he wasn't going to nourish me in that way...) I think I've learnt to give without allowing myself to feel hurt that I haven't received perhaps what I had in mind... because he has given me a lot; if not directly.

Thank you.
:bows: