TWo lovers, 18.1.3 and 8.2.5

[Energy]

Hi all, got myself into à complicated situation, i have feelings for two lovers. I wonder about both wether to go for it. Or if i should stay alone for à while instead because both are complicated to me. Im not sure about what THE yi is telling me. Help interpretating is much appreciated... i got 18.1.3 and 8.2.5

 

[ginnie]

18.1.3: Whenever we get hex 18, there is something to be fixed or repaired. Something to do with the father and all the father symbolizes."There is a little regret but no great blame." However, is this the way to start off with a lover? Doing repair work?

The other hexagram, 8.2.5 > 7, seems much more positive. It is possible to achieve sharing and a union of minds, a general accord, with this one.

 

[blue_angel]

What were your questions exactly for each answer?

 

[Energy]

thank you Ginnie, that makes it more clear. I asked the same question, "should I go for it with this man"..actually one of them(hex 18) is to me like the father I never had, I love him but not romantically, like a father, he wants a relationship or no contact at all. the other man is really special and hits home for me,but he is very affraid of intimacy, however I want him in my life but it cant be a very serious relationship. I love my freedom so perhaps this is just the right thing for me..thanks

 

[sooo]

18.1.3: Whenever we get hex 18, there is something to be fixed or repaired. However, is this the way to start off with a lover? Doing repair work?

Great question, Ginnie.

Or, requiring it.