Two readings

[Magnus]

Is it beneficial to pursue L at this time? hex 16 line 6

Looks like if the cards are played right and I follow a correct attitude rather than n inferior one that this could be successful. Dening suggests being realistic would avoid problems in this case.

Is it beneficial to pursue K at this time? hex 55 line 4

This one can be good if there is proper interaction.

I'm not really understanding if there's a better circumstance for either of these two readings. Does anyone have insights?

 

[blue_angel]

Why is it that you don't put the resulting hexagram? Is it that you don't know how? Or you don't think it matters?

 

[Magnus]

I didn't think to put it, wasn't considering whether it would be important or not. I've never been sure exactly what it means either, as some postings seem to indicate that it is a resulting hexagram, sometimes it works in the background and that sort of thing.

It is 16.6 > 35 and 55.4 > 36

Is that correct? I guess maybe the resulting hexagrams might say a lot with one being "progress" and the other indicating to find the light within yourself as outer light darkens... were you answering my question by asking about resulting hexagrams, Blue_Angel?

 

[blue_angel]

No Magnus I wasn't, I am rarely that clever your entire reading is very important and gives a much clearer answer to your questions. Besides its like asking some great force for advice or waking your ancestors, asking them a question, would you respect and consider all of the wise advice given or would you just read what comes first and ignore the rest? Would you turn your ears off after the first paragraph? You might miss something very valuable and important. There's a respect and a mystery that goes with divination. Along with an appreciation. I will come back with more on your readings later. That's all I have time for today. Sorry. Take it easy.

Blue_Angel

 

[Magnus]

Thanks, Blue_Angel! I would look at everything they say, at least that which peaks my attention from what they say whether its in a first paragraph or a 5th or 7th. Everything would be valuable to consider in drawing conclusions for sure. I look forward to your interpretations as your time permits, and thank you for the time you have given!

Magnus

 

[Magnus]

With regard to L, I have also asked "Is it significant that she said 'kinda seeing' with regard to a guy she is seeing at the moment (while talking to her best friend in front of me)?" I asked this twice as I had forgotten to make note of how I worded it the first time, and received as unhchanging 50 "the cauldron" but do not remember quite if I worded the question the same as I have above. When I cast again asking the quoted question above, I received 43 "breakthrough" unchanging. I thought this question was significant to ask because it is a main component of my reason for asking the first two readings about the two different people.

 

[blue_angel]

Magnus,

I would say the answer is K, but I need more background, and neither reading are very good to me when starting to see anyone. But that's just my experience and opinion of course.

Blue_Angel

 

[blue_angel]

I don't quite understand your questions or which questions go with which answers on that last post. But I think it could read like "yes it is significant, because its important what ingredients you put into a relationship in order to make it good and last" and "you are making a breakthrough by noticing these things and asking before making choices?" That's the most I see...

Blue_Angel

 

[Magnus]

In the last post, I cast without remembering my question but intended something like: "Is it significant that she said 'kinda seeing' with regard to a guy she is seeing at the moment (while talking to her best friend in front of me)?" and got 50 unchanging, then I specifically worded the question as I have quoted here: "Is it significant that she said 'kinda seeing' with regard to a guy she is seeing at the moment (while talking to her best friend in front of me)?" and received 43 unchanging. I expected the same results with the same intention for question in mind. It struck me that they differed when I wanted to know essentially the same thing.

K is the person I've asked questions about in other posts, which haven't looked that great in general I suppose. I don't really see a future with either of them in the immediate future, but I know L has been around in my life for a long time, and has no hint of leaving my life. About a year ago, it seemed like she was throwing out some minor hints that she had feelings for me, but I wasn't sure, and we don't live that close and didn't see each other for months. She's the one that said the other day to her friend, in my presence, that she's "kinda seeing" a guy. Since K and L are both at least kind of or fully seeing a guy at this time, it is probably not a time for a relationship, but if I have my focus right, I could be more ready for the one that seems more favorable based on the readings, I thought. If there are further background or detail questions to help with these results, or better questions to ask, I would be happy to hear other feedback too.

 

[blue_angel]

Magnus,

Why not get out there and meet new people, single people?

 

[Magnus]

They were both single. I'm open to others when I come across them too. If the I ching is telling me not to bother at all with either of these two, then so be it.

 

[Magnus]

When asking "Please give me insight into finding romance" I cast, hexagram 30, line 3 and 6 to hex 51. I thought this would be worthwhile to ask in light of the last posts in this thread.

 

[blue_angel]

I think 51 says you may receive a surprise or a shock of some sort and it will be good for you.

30.1 enjoy your life. If you are alone or not. Have fun, be happy, appreciate your life. Lighten up.

30.6 I don't have a clear take on this line. I think its says you have the strength and intelligence to take on new adventures.

What is it you are hoping for? Love? Romance? A stable, secure, exclusive relationship? Do you connect with L? You said she's been in your life for a long time. As a friend? Have you dated at all? And K have you had further conversations with her? Have you had any romance with either of them or have you been a friend?

 

[Magnus]

I basically want my life to feel like its falling into place. I suppose that would include having a partner, more of a career, a direction etc. I do connect well with L, about a year ago it seemed like things could happen, but there were months of distance between us and now I hear she is "kinda" seeing someone. I wouldn't say I'd approach anyone who's seeing someone though my look at readings suggests I would I guess. I am thinking more beyond those relationships, if they were to end kind of thing.

The relationship with K, perhaps started more by egoic means, a physical attraction, but felt to me like it evolved into a good amount of time getting to know each other and getting along well. I'm not sure what the sudden seemingly disconnect between her and I is about, but she hasn't contacted me in a week or so whereas L and I are on talking terms and seem to be getting along well as far as communication goes at this time.

 

[Magnus]

Please give me insight into ceasing to look for love. 50.1.3 > 38

Looks to me like this is saying to cease looking for love isn't necessarily the best option, but I'm not sure. Unless line 3 has something to being patient and just seeing what happens, in other words ceasing to look purposefully but being open to seeing it when it appears.

 

[Magnus]

Is there more for K and I? and I received 16.1.3.4.5 to 63. Does this imply that there is more to come before things totally end with K?

 

[Magnus]

An update on things which happened in the last day or two. K is single, started speaking aagain saying that she felt overwhelmed in life and just wanted to shut people out of her life for awhile. She said she would tell me next time before doing that so I knew she just wanted space for a bit. When asked about a relationship, she said she's "not ready exactly to talk about potential relationships" so I'm figuring giving it time would be best. I'll probably not see L again until december, so it will be interesting to see how things unfold between now and then.