two simple question

[diidii]

with the quarantine I decided to give the chance to a boy (who I never liked) to know me (and know him) in the last few weeks my interest in him has decreased more and more, but he lives next to me (my friends live out of my ordinary and I can't reach them for covid19. I know it may sound a little mean but we are human beings and we have to feed ourselves somehow so I asked two questions: what happens if I close with x? hexagram 60.5> 19 honestly I think that iching is supporting me in the choice, I interpreted the cast as a yes, and you will approach other people. the second question was: what happens if I keep dating him? 25.6> 17 also in this case it seems to me that the iching you continue to support the idea of letting it go, did I interpret it correctly? as always, my warmest thanks

 

[Matali]

with the quarantine I decided to give the chance to a boy (who I never liked) to know me (and know him) in the last few weeks my interest in him has decreased more and more, but he lives next to me (my friends live out of my ordinary and I can't reach them for covid19. I know it may sound a little mean but we are human beings and we have to feed ourselves somehow so I asked two questions: what happens if I close with x? hexagram 60.5> 19 honestly I think that iching is supporting me in the choice, I interpreted the cast as a yes, and you will approach other people. the second question was: what happens if I keep dating him? 25.6> 17 also in this case it seems to me that the iching you continue to support the idea of letting it go, did I interpret it correctly? as always, my warmest thanks

Hello !
With 60.5 to 19, I think the advice given here is "softness within the limits" not to create too harsh opposition or bad atmosphere for you and for this man.
The Judgment: "Bitter limitation should not be practiced with perseverance".
Line 5: "Sweet Limitation brings fortune. Going brings esteem»...
Hexagram 19 speaks of a relationship that does not last I think, and thats's what you apparently want... So, everything's fine !

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

with the quarantine I decided to give the chance to a boy (who I never liked) to know me (and know him) in the last few weeks my interest in him has decreased more and more, but he lives next to me (my friends live out of my ordinary and I can't reach them for covid19. I know it may sound a little mean but we are human beings and we have to feed ourselves somehow so I asked two questions: what happens if I close with x? hexagram 60.5> 19 honestly I think that iching is supporting me in the choice, I interpreted the cast as a yes, and you will approach other people. the second question was: what happens if I keep dating him? 25.6> 17 also in this case it seems to me that the iching you continue to support the idea of letting it go, did I interpret it correctly? as always, my warmest thanks

Hi! I'll give a try.

First cast:

I see the green light too, but I think you have to limit yourself, be clear with the person, and respect the same limits you put to the question. 1 to 1 thing. Same rules for both of you. In this case you get to know each other, without any further expectation.

Second cast:

If you go further and date him, you should do this with innocence, without any other objective. Yes, let it go, and let's see. Don't plan anything, just wait, it could be (line 6) that you'll loose interest naturally. Don't force it, the destiny will follow its path and will guide you (hex 17).

 

[diidii]

Thanks to your valuable additional comments, I understand more clearly the answers Iiching gave me! I believe that by sweet limitation he really means limits, and not necessarily closure. and with the second let me be guided by destiny and see how it goes, in short, never take anything for granted, everything can change. as always, I thank you infinitely. I will try to adopt this system. see you in some time for an update @Matali @ClavdiaChauchat

 

[diidii]

little update: I was with him, and I was replying to a guy on social media. (a few days ago) he made a scene of jealousy and so I explained to him that we are not together and that we are not on the same level of feelings, he went away embittered, I tried to send him a text message but he did not reply so I asked: what feelings do you have for me? hexagram 21.2.3> 14 helping me by reading other shared readings I interpreted as a: the feeling he has for you and resentment, so I asked a follow up question. why are you resentful of me? 2.5> 8 guys sorry but I just couldn't apply an answer to my question with the yellow petticoat, so I asked the same question again hexagram 24 unchanging. for days I'm worried but I just can't get an answer, I hope for your help.

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

little update: I was with him, and I was replying to a guy on social media. (a few days ago) he made a scene of jealousy and so I explained to him that we are not together and that we are not on the same level of feelings, he went away embittered, I tried to send him a text message but he did not reply so I asked: what feelings do you have for me? hexagram 21.2.3> 14 helping me by reading other shared readings I interpreted as a: the feeling he has for you and resentment, so I asked a follow up question. why are you resentful of me? 2.5> 8 guys sorry but I just couldn't apply an answer to my question with the yellow petticoat, so I asked the same question again hexagram 24 unchanging. for days I'm worried but I just can't get an answer, I hope for your help.

Mmh, with me, a single hex means that Yi does not want to talk about it.
So, first cast: he probably want to go fast, faster than you. He wants to skip some important steps, but, he's loosing himself (he looses the nose). Furthermore, he's perfectly aware that he shouldn't act this way, but he's stubborn. He can perfectly understand, but he does not want. Third line: you have to be extremely clear with this person. And strong in putting limits. He does not want to admit you're right. 14: you'll probably solve the situation, but be careful that you want the same thing on the same level!

 

[Viru10]

I think 25.6 that you originally cast was warning against 'going with the flow', or that 'seeing how things go' with this person would actually lead to a blunder. Perhaps it was a warning that it is better to return alone (24uc).

60.5 (again your original question) seems to indicate that limiting the development of the relationship- maybe even keeping on friendly terms more than anything would be better. Doing so in a friendly way.

I don't think your original castings were suggesting to continue the relationship, so all your recent questions are irrelevant if Yi is suggesting you're better off without it.

And I think I'd avoid questions about 'feelings' and just focus on actions here. It sounded like you were lukewarm on him to begin with? If you guys can get back together then fine, but if this behavior repeats I guess it's pointing you back to 25.6

 

[diidii]

Mmh, with me, a single hex means that Yi does not want to talk about it.
So, first cast: he probably want to go fast, faster than you. He wants to skip some important steps, but, he's loosing himself (he looses the nose). Furthermore, he's perfectly aware that he shouldn't act this way, but he's stubborn. He can perfectly understand, but he does not want. Third line: you have to be extremely clear with this person. And strong in putting limits. He does not want to admit you're right. 14: you'll probably solve the situation, but be careful that you want the same thing on the same level!

I don't know how you did it but besides giving me your answer you made me reflect on the meaning of these launches and also how to behave with him from today, a new method of approach. thanks, thanks, thanks.

 

[diidii]

I think 25.6 that you originally cast was warning against 'going with the flow', or that 'seeing how things go' with this person would actually lead to a blunder. Perhaps it was a warning that it is better to return alone (24uc).

60.5 (again your original question) seems to indicate that limiting the development of the relationship- maybe even keeping on friendly terms more than anything would be better. Doing so in a friendly way.

I don't think your original castings were suggesting to continue the relationship, so all your recent questions are irrelevant if Yi is suggesting you're better off without it.

And I think I'd avoid questions about 'feelings' and just focus on actions here. It sounded like you were lukewarm on him to begin with? If you guys can get back together then fine, but if this behavior repeats I guess it's pointing you back to 25.6

I think no answer he gives you is irrelevant. even though I am a true beginner, but every launch when I understand (or have manifested in reality) has always given me an enrichment. and if there's one thing i've learned it's that iking always gives you the freedom to choose and i don't think she told me to stop dating. also because it is true that this guy has his attitudes but he is really attentive to me so I don't think iching was telling me but you can always make me understand where you gave me the answer. I send you a greeting and thank you anyway. I hope you can understand my English a little bit awful.