Understanding Hex 5.6 a Bit Better

[white owl]

HI,
This is my first post on Clarity. I have utilized this website often however for more clarifications on readings and has helped me to achieve deeper insight. This could be a yes or no question I understand that but this hex has come up numerous times regarding a relationship I have with someone. We have decided to date again, taking it slow however. I have asked this question a week ago "What does the future hold for me & _ _ _ ?" .... Than I get the same hex today asking if he will follow through on loaning me some money (which he offered) I did not ask, he knows I am in dire straits right now & have to move to find a place with less rent ( got laid off of work.) He said he would loan me some money to help get me back on my feet again & also with deposit on another place to live too. Time is ticking & I am trying to remain calm/centered. I have utility bill to pay & a 7 yr old to feed/ shelter along with myself. I asked "Will --- loan me the money" & recieved Hex 5.6 to 9Who is the contender? what am I missing? Is something going to reveal itself soon? The three strangers maybe three sides to the story symbolic to a triangle..crazy thoughts running through my head

Enlightenment is greatly appreciated! Thank You!

 

[white owl]

I asked Iching if I was the contender & got Hex 1 unchanging so that says yes favor will tip in my direction (in my opinion) however this hex combo baffles me..anybody else have experience w/ this one. I also get 9.6 to 5 alot to in regards to this relationship.

 

[elias]

5.6 - help arrives from an unexpected place. The hard part is recognizing it...

9 Small Taming: As you realize, you are not in a position of power. It is therefore especially important to conduct yourself impeccably and not be drawn into questionable exchanges.

9.6 > 5 An interesting compliment to your current cast. Overall, I read this as a situation of slow progress. Though you do not feel that you are advancing in this relationship, you are slowly moving in a positive direction.

Hex 1 -- lots of creative energy, but a warning also not to be too taken with the superficial, confusing appearances with reality. What is set in motion now may take a long time to play out.

 

[white owl]

Thanks Elias,

I think help is going to arrive from an unexpected source too & at the same time something will revel itself about this relationship or just him or me. Either way it feels karmic because he broke my heart ten years ago, since than I have remarried , had baby & now divorce living back home. I myself am free from him hurting me, thats why I allowed myself to go out on a few dates with him & I expressed my situation to him & he offered to give me some money, because he has it to give(or maybe not) & it felt also like it was his way of saying sorry & release karmic baggage at the same time. He did also mention he was looking for someone to stay at his place while he was up in Canada doing business. I am just trying to help myself & mydaughter right now, I just need honesty & sincereity right now.

What is ironic & interesting about this all is that I am in the exact same position as I was 10 years ago when I met him & he did not take me serious back than (he is 13 yrs older than me) thought I was a gold digger. No my problems are very real & serious.
I think he sees that now & how I could really care less. I think he sees also that he created this false reality around me too, to himself & his friends because he enjoyed the game way to much & attention. That is another reason I get hex 58.4 and 58.5 or both together regarding him. I have never asked him for money ever or anything but his friendship & a little time. I might be attractive yes & younger but lets not paint this false picture of someone for the sake of attention or what you want the reality of it all to be.. Gold digger floosy..I dont think so