Very imp decision between two options pl help!!

[capri]

Hello,

I really need help on a situation. My 6 yr pddnos daughter goes to school A(kindergarten) and we are happy with it and she has made progress/everyone in school A is very nice and kind and cares for my daughter. We also have a recommendation of school B( the school district is recommending it but their reasons sometimes are different.... budgets, policy etc not necessary the welfare of child and I am worried my child might fall through the cracks in school B since she is the quiet/shy/anxious child who will stay in the corner. I need to take a decision and this might impact next 6 years of her school

Should I send her to school A(current school)- hexagram 53 unchanging
Should I send her to school B- hexagram 15 unchanging
Impact of A on her-51.4.6
Impact of B on her- 51 shock unchanging
What change will I see in my daughter if I send her to A- 56.1.5 to 13
What change will I see in daughter if I send her to B- 24.5 to 3

Pl advise. Also any other question that I could ask that would help please do tell me. I am so confused and worried and do not want to take a wrong decision

Thanks a lot for the help

Capri

 

[dancing white ferret]

Hello Capri . Is it possible there is an unexpected third option. Could be with both answers coming up 51. My experience with 51 unchanging is generally that what will happen will be unexpected, and in a good way. Got 51 for a second meeting with a person I really disliked the first time I met them. the second time, I really liked them, and was shocked. 51.4 has come up for me when I'm confused about which direction to move in, and just bogged down emotionally, kinda stuck at a turning point. Line 6... I've never been 100% sure on it, but I usually read it as don't lose it. Just calmly move out of the way of danger even if everything and everyone seems chaotic. Has not been associated with a pleasant experience for me. I wonder if this is reflecting your daughter's current situation and advising you how to handle it. Don't panic! Between these 2 readings, I would definitely take the 51 as the better option. 51.4.6 sounds more like a paralyzing fear to me. 51 has been a pleasant surprise in my experience. It's always interesting to me too how often I get 24 and 51.4 about similar questions. I think they both can relate to a turning point. So, maybe something will change at her current school... 53 unchanging suggests to me patience. That you should wait before making a decision. All in all, these readings suggest to me to be patient, don't panic, wait, you may be in for a pleasant surprise... Just based on my experience though. Hope that helps you

 

[meng]

Just based on my experience though.

And mine, to a T.

 

[capri]

Thank you for the reading and advise. The problem is I do not have the option the be patient. The school starts in september. They have sent me a paper for recommendation for school B( other school). I have 10 days to decide if I want to keep her in current school A or send her to the other school. The decision is mine and the school will respect it. That is why I am so worried on what to do since I cannot not do nothing

capri

 

[meng]

dwf already cast his/her (never really knew which) opinion that 2 would be the better choice. Based solely on your readings, I agree. I too have found 51.6 to be a messy and complicated ordeal, which generally hasn't ended well, despite the fact that my neighbors and their pit bull with their thug-like attitudes were the cause of all the commotion. I, unfortunately, caught the brunt of their inconsiderate chaotic manners. Awful experience.

Otoh, 51uc is usually momentary and acts more like a stimulus than a hindrance.

Just my experience with them.

 

[dancing white ferret]

Hi Capri... Considering the verbiage of your question, and my experience with the I Ching and every other form of divination, I would consider that the I Ching may be giving you advice about your indecision between these 2 options and not really answering your questions directly. Like, for your questions, "Should I send her to school A?" and "Should I send her to school B?"... The Yi can't answer yes or no, and may be reflecting that indecision in your answers. But 15 and 53 both could just be advising you to make a calm decision, slow down and think it through. Or, could be showing you something about the school. It's hard to say for sure. Even for impact of A on her and B on her, would maybe just be the initial impact, or could even be reflecting your current state in the decision making. And with line 4 of 51, that would really be my best guess. And it's not just that the Yi just could be answering you this way... it often does. The uncomfortable truth here is that there is always an element of the unknown with these types of decisions no matter what. When I am trying to decide between 2 options, I usually ask 2 questions. "What do I need to see about option A?" "What do I need to see about option B?" Or sometimes I've asked, "How do I decide between options A and B?" It's not so much that it matters how you word the question as it is that the question you ask actually matches what is going on in your mind. And your questions suggest what was going on in your mind at the time was maybe confusion and indecision. Only you know that though. Anyway, I've learned to accept that the future consequences of these decisions are always somewhat unknown. Good luck!

 

[dancing white ferret]

Haha... Oh Meng.... I'm totally a girl dude... Although I'm not totally surprised at your confusion. Been there a few times myself.

 

[meng]

Haha... Oh Meng.... I'm totally a girl dude... Although I'm not totally surprised at your confusion. Been there a few times myself.

Ooh, THAT explains a LOT! No, just kidding.

 

[capri]

thanks DWF you are right about my state of mind yesterday. I had just got the letter and was very tensed. I will ask your questions that you suggested when I am calmer on the weekend!! will post once I get the answers from the Yi!