"villain" in 40.4.5 - self or other???

[innertruth]

Dear all,,
i'm asking again about same person I asked in the past.
I don't trust her. Simple as that..might be as well irrational but who knows...

Should I expect any harm from her?

I got 40.4.5 to 29...
And I am very confused, whether removing toes means removing interaction with that person,
or actually my fears/concerns/paranoia and what not...

Please, help

 

[rosada]

40.4 Relax.
40.5 She may not be trust worthy but you can handle it.
29. Stay calm and carry on.

 

[innertruth]

Thanks,rosada...even though this thought of harm pops up in me...i will try to just keep myself free from it

 

[thisismybody]

Innertruth, follow your inner truth, your gut. Some truths come through the most basic channels. Trust yourself. I'd be willing to bet there is a very solid reason you feel that way. Yi thinks so, too. I know proof is hard to come by and lack of gives rise to doubt. Trust yourself. Sorry, I repeated myself. Trust yourself. For some reason it wants to come out. Maybe it's my gut. Maybe I'm just being paranoid.

Think back to a time you felt utter trust in someone. That feeling of resonance. That feeling of being snug. Think of how that feels. Now take your attention to your solar plexus and heart chakra. See how you feel there. Then think of the opposite. You may feel a tightening in those places. You can also tell yourself something true and see how you react in those places. And then tell yourself a lie. You'll feel a difference.

The idea is to stay connected to yourself and trust, trust, trust yourself. (All time record for saying the word ---- in a sentence! Ah!)

 

[innertruth]

thisismybody
this is a great exercise....i found tout that i feel more fear towards to that person than actual mistrust
fear...i just feel fearful...something about her makes me fear her...

as if she doesn't really care that much about me,,,and can do something to her advantage only disregarding of my own preferences or needs.

 

[innertruth]

Thank you...You know we need to have that gut connection developed...it is hard often because of the reason you mentioned...but yes...this gut feeling...
Oh I so want to trust myself...I must learn to pay attention to my inner feelings..
I feel uneasy around her...like she's always critical of me...maybe i catch on her waves,,,she's often in irritable gloomy state, talking loudly...maybe her aura has so much stress itself that I simply
"copy" it, absorb it like a sponge...I 've noticed I am quite good at doing that...
catching up someone else's moods around me and being sensitive...
maybe that feeling of uneasiness that emanates from her state of mind or emotional state
creates this mixed feelings in me...I am pretty sure it is that...
Maybe there is no harm towards me as such..but this condition she is in...Her tense condition...Yes
like she is not open, defensive, or indifferent...That all like a cloud i can feel myself...maybe this is it...
It feels good to analyze why you feel certain way...

 

[thisismybody]

Hi innertruth,

I'm going to take a "stab" that you're a guy. But you a talk like a female. Damn. And I...wish I knew you in real life. I appreciate your vibe. And if you're a woman, all the better. My point is that you're YOU. I'm sorry I'm late on this. I've been working OT like a B. Trust! So what if who she is or what she puts out. Find YOU first. What YOU put out.

I'm sorry. I wasn't paying enough attention. You felt fear... But the above is my first thought...

 

[innertruth]

Hey thisismybody,
im a female indeed,, why? thanks...

You are right in a deeper sense. If I don't trust myself enough--noone can be my guide...BUt the reason I asked Yi is because I was freaking out and didn't, couldn't establish a connection with my innerself...
I know we as humans should have no fear whatsoever - it is all a waste of nerves and time anyway...
Fear is a destructive thing in any situation...So having that I could not trust myself - I asked YI.
Who told me to 40 - disentangle - i am happy to read here - i should not expect anything bad coming my way....I was just always confused whether Yi points to actual person (villain) or villain is a collective name for my fears or whatever...Was Yi saying I am doing myself more harm by fearing....
Why did you wanna know me in real life?? Do my readings resonate with yours? THat's cool if so

 

[innertruth]

I was wondering if you put out only positive vibes ----do better situations come along as in law of attraction?
Or it doesn't matter? Does this inner tuning makes it real?? ANyone?

 

[diamanda]

Feeling positive does make a small difference in my experience. For example, it's totally different to walk into a restaurant (for example) with a smile, than walk in looking morose (you get better service with a smile).

On the other hand, it doesn't make any difference whatsoever regarding how many @ssh0les you'll meet, or how they'll behave to you, or how much good luck you'll have in general. Also, if one overdoes it with feeling positive, they make themselves an easy victim because they assume that others are all nice and positive people too (very untrue), somehow expecting this so-called law of attraction to work (I've never seen it work).

Try it out for yourself (with caution so as not to become a victim) and see.
In my opinion, nothing beats being neutrally observant and objective.

 

[innertruth]

could not help smiling reading your post...because it's true...becoming a victim yes if you openly or better say eagerly show how kind and nice you are - works 100%..unfortunately...Guess all that matters is that you stay clean inside of any shit coming your way and don't take it personal - then it's all good for your spirit....

the only solution seems to be doing what is right (towards noble man ideal) and feeling good about yourself...so that outside people and circumstances won't shake your boat..