Was it a mistake?

[julia]

Hello all,

I sent yesterday an email to this guy I'm falling for and today I felt a bit anxious about it, perhaps because I added a song that I wrote to him and -even when he will not understand the lyrics because it is in another language and it doesn't say extreme things or there is no declaration of love, I exposed myself a lot more that usual.

I just asked to the I Ching "was it a mistake to send that email"? and I received as response 32.3.4 moving to 15. For what I read in other post and books, it is telling like I am looking for something in the wrong place... Before I jumped into conclusions I wanted to ask you how would you read this answer based on the question I made.

I did other follow up questions:
what did he feel about song? 19, unchanging.

what is the best attitude I can have towards my insecurities about my situation with him? 41, unchanging.

Thank you as alsways for your help,
Julia

 

[willowfox]

"was it a mistake to send that email"? and I received as response 32.3.4 moving to 15.

Line 32.3 says not to let your fears control your mind otherwise you are going to get yourself all dizzy for no reason, and you are going to end up messing things up. So, the email has been sent and that is the end of it, there is no cause to run around worrying about it.

Line 32.4 This line says that you need to think carefully and go about this in the right way if you want to capture this guy, if he does not respond to you positively then you have to try again but different approach next time. To catch your man needs stealth, cunning and the right trap. Perhaps your email was the right trap, all you can do is to wait and see if you have captured anything.

Hex 15 suggests that sending the email was not a mistake.

Hex 19 suggests a very positive reaction, looks to be happy about it.

 

[julia]

Thank you, Willofox! You were right! It went well! He actually asked someone else to translate the lyrics, so he listened to the song.

I have to get back to him for one thing he asked me, and as I don't want to mess up this "good fortune" I have, I asked what was the best way to respond to him and received 13.1.2.5 moving to 50.

What do you think this reading is advising?

Thank you again!