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what are his true intentions?
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Shefa
These answers are tough to decipher for some reason, but I will take a shot. Let me know if it makes any sense. As far as his true intentions, I have to take 39.1 and 44 together as a whole. It seems he feels as if, so to say, "you are a tough nut to crack." As far as his intentions, it would appears that his interest is primarily sexual, and that things are not moving as fast as he would like.
Your best approach would be a firm one in which you make clear the direction you want it to take and that you expect to be respected. That attitude may possibly, just possibly, turn things around in such a way that he has respect for your inner strength, and will become seriously interested.
Usually I get a strong feeling as to the rightness or wrongness of what I am reading out of it. This time I do not. Let me know if this makes any sense at all.
Gene
These answers are tough to decipher for some reason, but I will take a shot. Let me know if it makes any sense. As far as his true intentions, I have to take 39.1 and 44 together as a whole. It seems he feels as if, so to say, "you are a tough nut to crack." As far as his intentions, it would appears that his interest is primarily sexual, and that things are not moving as fast as he would like.
Your best approach would be a firm one in which you make clear the direction you want it to take and that you expect to be respected. That attitude may possibly, just possibly, turn things around in such a way that he has respect for your inner strength, and will become seriously interested.
Usually I get a strong feeling as to the rightness or wrongness of what I am reading out of it. This time I do not. Let me know if this makes any sense at all.
Gene
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Hi,
what are his true intentions? 39.1 to 31
how does me feel about me? 44
both answer are connected.. each seams to be full of sexual desire.
what are his true intentions? 39.1 to 31 there is an impediment but he want you.
how does me feel about me? 44 he wants to out with you.
as confirmation the Yi advice you how to "manage" the situation with him. like below.
what's the best approach for me to take with him? 37.1 to 53
the Yi advice you to adopt a set of precise rules... not to forge ahead.
the advice is: to opt for a relationship that evolves with a long courtship.
the time for the courtship is related to you... what is for you a long time in this case?
hope to help and update in future
Patro
what are his true intentions? 39.1 to 31
how does me feel about me? 44
both answer are connected.. each seams to be full of sexual desire.
what are his true intentions? 39.1 to 31 there is an impediment but he want you.
how does me feel about me? 44 he wants to out with you.
as confirmation the Yi advice you how to "manage" the situation with him. like below.
what's the best approach for me to take with him? 37.1 to 53
the Yi advice you to adopt a set of precise rules... not to forge ahead.
the advice is: to opt for a relationship that evolves with a long courtship.
the time for the courtship is related to you... what is for you a long time in this case?
hope to help and update in future
Patro
Thank you both for the readings and advice.
I believe he does have strong sexual desire for me - yet he denies it. He admits to being easily aroused around me but claims it's just hormones and not me. I think he's either lying to me or to himself, or both. What do you men say??
But it's recently become clear he does not respect me (I think) and I have decided to part ways with him. I asked Yi to comment on my decision. I got 54.2.5 to 17
Gene, you are right-on except for the part about it not moving fast enough for him, because he keeps putting on the brakes sexually. I have been more ready than him, and unfortunately, this seems to have worked against me in the respect department.
Patro, Yes, I think he does want me. But it seems that he thinks he shouldn't. I do not fit his "image" or "idea" of what he thinks he wants, I believe. He hasn't said this directly. It's just my interpretation of other things he has said. But I could be wrong.
My gut says to not forge ahead on any level with him. But I'm confused about Yi's response to my decision. Any thoughts about this followup reading? Thanks!!!!!!
I believe he does have strong sexual desire for me - yet he denies it. He admits to being easily aroused around me but claims it's just hormones and not me. I think he's either lying to me or to himself, or both. What do you men say??
But it's recently become clear he does not respect me (I think) and I have decided to part ways with him. I asked Yi to comment on my decision. I got 54.2.5 to 17
Gene, you are right-on except for the part about it not moving fast enough for him, because he keeps putting on the brakes sexually. I have been more ready than him, and unfortunately, this seems to have worked against me in the respect department.
Patro, Yes, I think he does want me. But it seems that he thinks he shouldn't. I do not fit his "image" or "idea" of what he thinks he wants, I believe. He hasn't said this directly. It's just my interpretation of other things he has said. But I could be wrong.
My gut says to not forge ahead on any level with him. But I'm confused about Yi's response to my decision. Any thoughts about this followup reading? Thanks!!!!!!
Trust your gut feeling - it's there to guide and protect you. Should he resurface, show some interest, your time to play hard to get ... and for as long as possible !
About the castings - none positive ! In every instance you're being advised to exercise restraint.
Remember the majority of men enjoy their role of 'hunter' so let him hunt, pursue, etc. No need for
you to show physical attraction and readiness in that respect ... his instinct will know.
About the castings - none positive ! In every instance you're being advised to exercise restraint.
Remember the majority of men enjoy their role of 'hunter' so let him hunt, pursue, etc. No need for
you to show physical attraction and readiness in that respect ... his instinct will know.
Hello Shefa
As I said, I am not getting strong feelings toward the rightness or wrongness of this reading right now. Based on what you have said, there is something else going on under the surface. If he is easily aroused he has strong sexual desire. He is holding off for some other reason. I don't know what it is, unless he is just afraid he would be using you for his own purposes without being able to return anything. He may have no long term interest in you and doesn't just want to use you. That seems the most likely scenario. If that is the case, I would move on.
Gene
As I said, I am not getting strong feelings toward the rightness or wrongness of this reading right now. Based on what you have said, there is something else going on under the surface. If he is easily aroused he has strong sexual desire. He is holding off for some other reason. I don't know what it is, unless he is just afraid he would be using you for his own purposes without being able to return anything. He may have no long term interest in you and doesn't just want to use you. That seems the most likely scenario. If that is the case, I would move on.
Gene