what can I can do? 25 3.2. relating 21

[lilylotus]

Is there something I can do for my friend to stay in my life?

Hexagram 25 changing lines 3.2. relating 21 :bag:

 

[pink_mandolin]

About the Hex

lilly

25. 3.2 -- 21 This doesn't look right. I checked online the relating hex isn't right. You might need to check what you've thrown or it could be either you mean

25.2.3 which changes into 1

or 25.5 which changes into 21

 

[lilylotus]

It is primary Hexagram 25 with changing lines 3.2. yes it changes into 1
relating hexagram 21

 

[Trojina]

if your primary hexagram is 25.2.3 then your relating hexagram is 1. Not sure where you get the 21 from, it isn't the relating hexagram. The one it 'changes into' is the relating hexagram, they are the same thing

if you got 25.5 as your primary then 21 would be the relating but you didn't get 25.5 did you you got 25.2.3..ie lines 2 and 3 moving..er you aren't adding lines 2 and 3 up to make 5 are you ?

 

[lilylotus]

I am confused , I did the virtual Iching here, the result was primary hexagram 25 with changing lines 3.2. and then there was a relating hexagram 21. Maybe I am reading something wrong? No, I am not adding lines, I just write here the ones that is written there that are changing . 3.2. lines

 

[lilylotus]

Maybe when I do the virtual iching here then I should not consider the moving lines? Maybe it is all there? I dont understand

 

[maremaria]

Maybe this will help http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/members/free_I_Ching_course.pdf

or this : http://www.yijing.nl/i_ching/begin.htm http://www.yijing.nl/i_ching/index.html

 

[lilylotus]

I think I understood, the only changing line is 5, the relating hexagram then is 21 > I was reading the two red lines as changing...

Then it is 25 .5 related 21

 

[maremaria]

Umm, instructions read : "Any lines shown in red are changing lines. "

why don't you toss again ? or try with the coins ?

 

[lilylotus]

I did it..the result was Hexagram 45 changing line 6 (topmost) relating 12
the question was what can I do for my friend to stay in my life..

 

[pink_mandolin]

Expressing Your Tears 45.6---12

Whew lily, we got a hex eventually I had a look, I've not had this one before, but I think the line is self explanatory with the interpretations I have here!

45. Meeting. Line 6: Uttering sighs, snot and tears. Without fault. Expressing frustration and sadness. Nothing wrong with that.

To me this just says that you are experiencing a lot of pain over whats happened. That you shouldn't be concerned over your feeling so much hurt, as its natural to feel grief, considering your circumstances. Now as to what you can do....

Six at the top means: Lamenting and sighing, floods of tears.No blame. It may happen that an individual would like to ally himself with another, but his good intentions are misunderstood. Then he becomes sad and laments. But this is the right course. For it may cause the other person to come to his senses, so that the alliance that has been sought and so painfully missed is after all achieved.

I don't know your situation but I think the 45 is advising you to perhaps meet and share your true feelings with the "great man". Be yourself. I think your answer is here in this interpretation, perhaps you need to be honest with this guy/friend and tell him how upset you are over this standstill/stalemate thats happened between you. If this feels right to you then it would be advisable to do it. I believe thats what the hex is showing.

Also, this doesn't promise an end to the problem but it says that he may come to his senses if he knows how much you are in pain. Hmmm Thats what I'm getting. See what you think and whether that feels right to you It certainly looks like a step you could take.

Goodluck x Pls let us know how it goes!!