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What can I do so she'd want to meet me? 14.2.3>21

kafuka

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Hello guys,
it's been a long time but I was lurking a lot. :D

There's a girl I met on-line, we've been talking as friends since February and I really like her. The problem is I'd like to meet her in person but the last time we talked about it she didn't feel comfortable about it yet. It makes me kind of crazy because I feel that meeting each other is very important.

I asked: What can I do so she'd want to meet me? 14.2.3>21.
14.2 I should show my talents more and not to underestimate myself;
14.3 There's a sacrifice of some kind. I have something that I should share with others;
21 seems to be the current situation.

I'm not sure if it helps but when I asked why she didn't want to meet me I got 24.1>2.
When I asked what is going to happen between us by the end of the year I got 17.5>51 - this seems to be a very nice line. :)

I really need your help with my reading. Thank you for your insight. :flirt:
 
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14.2: let's go
14.3: drop it

so you need to abandon this idea, 21 shows that the decision is hers.

Yes, typically 14.3 can represent a sacrifice of some sort, so does 28. If you accept the sacrifice you may obtain what you wanted, but not necessarily, sometimes you need to accept the sacrifice to escape danger, like if you were dropping sand bags from your balloon to gain altitude.


The decision
14 - Meeting the demands

Addressing the needs if the means are available.
14 - Meeting the demands

2 - One gets things under way.

3 - Accepting loss and abandon, this is how one reduces danger.
In the making
21 - To decide

One would like to meet but must accept an arbitration.


http://taoscopy.com/en/consultation/799787/

I won't elaborate more about this, because it would be like walking on quicksand. Keep consulting the Yi if you need more insight.
 

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24.1 → 2
She doesn't want to go far with you. She loves her freedom, to go to and fro.

17.5 → 51
Wilhelm:
Every man must have something he follows - something that serves him as a lodestar.
He who follows with conviction the beautiful and the good may feel himself strengthened by this saying.


I think Yi advises you to break-up. To follow something better and higher.

And so
What can I do so she'd want to meet me? 14.2.3 → 21
It's either:
you have a gift/ability/car that you don't use (.2), and you should use it and share it with others (.3).
Go on a road trip together?

Or:
If she is the one, she would have been available a long time ago (line 2 speaks about resources that are mobile and ready to use).
So drop this relationship and move on (.3).
 

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It took me a few more months to finally move on. I really liked to talk to her but it was rather one sided (she didn't open up much) and I realized how much it is actually hurting me.

I asked two final questions.
What if I stop talking to her? I got 19.1.6>4
What if I keep talking to her? I got 19.4>54
It's kind of interesting that I got Nearing for both the answers, and I'm not sure I understand the readings well, but what really stood up is the 54. It pretty much described my feelings how I always come second to her. I kind of miss her but I really think it is better this way. :)
 

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So are you still "talking" friends that have not yet met in person? How is it hurting you?
 

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We don't talk anymore. We were talking on a forum and it was kind of nice but I wanted more. I wanted to meet her in person eventually (what she rejected) and overall get to know her better which was actually impossible because she was pretty cautious to share personal stuff (she'd even refused to tell me her name). I always shared stuff but she rarely did and it was making me feel unimportant. The problem was that I wanted a friend while she just wanted to chat lightly about more or less unimportant things.
 

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What can I do so she'd want to meet me? 14.2.3>21.

Line 14.2, large supply wagons, implies that there is enough capacity to carry out a meeting. But line 14.3 indicates some sort of weakness or drawback that would make such a meeting inadvisable. ("...the little man would only harm himself in the attempt.") So it looks like the two lines are contradictory. When the I Ching says "little man," I think this indicates a weakness that would cause a meeting to be perhaps painful to you for some reason. You might ask a second question to pinpoint more about what is implied by that 14.3. That would be the source of the trouble. :)
 

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Funny thing, Ginnie.
I asked "Yi, why do you seem not to recommend the meeting, what would be the source of the trouble?"
and I've got, believe it or not, 14.2>30.

Before that I asked "What is the chance we will ever meet?" The answer is 39.4>31.
I've never received this line but my very first thought that came to my mind was that I cannot go to her, that she needs to come to me but the obstacle is there's no mutual attraction.
The strange thing is that almost from the beginning I have this feeling like we'll meet sooner or later, like it's meant for us to meet for some reason and I have absolutely no idea where it comes from. Now after we stopped talking the chance for us to meet dropped even more but I still feel the same certainty. It's rather weird.
 

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Ok, and another weird thing I just realized.
Yesterday I found a black feather on the floor in my bedroom and asked Yi what is the feather's meaning, what angels wanted to tell me. I've got 14.2.3>21 and it's actually how I came across my old post again. :eek:
 

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Hmmm. Are you thinking of contacting her to resume "talking"?
 

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