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Hi giraffecloudWhat can I do to be included in conversation with the rest of the team? Hexagram 10.1.4.6 <> 29
Hi giraffecloud
It sounds like this not fitting into the group is a big deal for you at the moment.
Hex 10 meaning 'not abiding where you are'
Hex 29 meaning 'what is below'
You are currently in the chasm (what is below) and not able to rest easy with what you see there.
The guidance of Hex 10 as to what you can do is to become more discerning about what is happening in the situation, Come to terms with it and set it right. Leaving your past (behaviours?) behind can be difficult and deep within this situation is the challenge for you to bring into your awareness what is necessary to make amends and then to bring your influence to bear in order to improve and then maintain a constant relationship and feel part of this group.
10.1 - Set the boundaries you need to feel safe, both inside and outside, then maintain them.
10.4 - Slowly bring your inner and outer needs together. Make things nourishing for you.
10.6 - Reflect on how things progress as you increasingly trust your chosen path. Make adjustments as required and most of all believe in yourself as that will bring best results.
...or it may be nothing like that for you.
Bullying can certainly leave a deep scar on how we think, speak and behave and also impact our self exteem and trust. Only you will really know if this is something you need to tackle to become better integrated with the team.Yeah, I think making it a big deal is an effect from my depression.
The interesting thing about the past being brought up in this reading is that one of the students that goes was in my year at high school and his mates bullied me although recently I had a friendly conversation with him but perhaps that is something I need to tackle?
Line 4 is the line that points towards choices, beliefs and finding the right road. Here, if taken in isolation, the changing line aligns with Hex 61 your Inner Truth. Bringing needs together doesn't necessarily mean simultaneously, as I see it. What is important to recognise is that the alignment of your inner and outer needs will lead you naturally on to better circumstances. How you choose to accomplish this is all down to you.That's some good advice. I wasn't sure about your line 4 at first with "bringing needs together" but I think you mean take care of these needs simultaneously in order to bring them together.
I'm glad that you have found this line of use too.I like your interpretation of line 6 as well. By trusting in my path, I will be able to look back at my progress. That's pretty cool.
I think this reading might be suggesting you look at deeper patterns of feeling left out, ignored, or excluded. Line 6 wants you to look at everything (or at least some things) that have led up to this moment/experience and understand better what got you there. What is the meaning behind this feeling? Since this one specific experience by itself probably isn't that meaningful, more just an opportunity to better understand. By understanding that better (with compassion and kindness, of course, not judging yourself) it will be a lot more clear what is a genuinely healing or helpful step.
As far as suggested action, keep it really simple. Nothing passive aggressive, manipulative, or that misrepresents how you really feel. Line 1 is about simplicity and acting totally straightforward and with innocence, while Line 4 says that anything too tricky, complicated, or dramatic probably isn't worth it. Save the big risks for things that are truly important. In this case, I'm inclined to wonder if the danger we see in Line 4 is more internal, that the situation feels high-stakes and emotionally dangerous because of past experience. If so, and you feel able, maybe it's the right time to risk doing something different, pure, and direct to alter this course of feeling this way in group situations. If that feels too big, don't do it. Being simple and honest with yourself, doing the reflection and inquiry of Line 6 would be enough if it helps you have a different relationship to the circumstance.
What can I do to be included in conversation with the rest of the team? 10.1.4.6 > 29
10.1 having a plain simple behaviour, then they can't put any blame you.
10.4 there's a tiger in the group (an aggressive person), it's lucky to be fearful of them (fear protects us).
10.6 look at the previous two omens. Once these have happened...
... the situation results in 29. The same danger will still be there.
So I don't think there's much you can do to fit into that group, because that group contains a tiger.
finding a language that makes sense to you to think about your part in the situation
Other perspectives..
10.1 The little cats are following Mama cat. You are at the end of the line so while you may not feel recognized as a part of this group but at least you haven't yet tread on Mama tiger's tail. You haven't offended the mighty Group Consciousness. Be wary of appearing as if you think you know all the answers.
10.4 You would very much like to be heard but speaking up will be a bit of a risk. Still, you deserve to be heard. If you are clear and focused and the time is appropriate you should do fine.
10.6 Neither God nor the Tiger play dice with the Universe. If you are following the proper procedures you will get the desired results.
29. Reads like a very scary situation. It sounds like quicksand to me, where you don't know where it's safe to step. Perhaps it is explaining that this so-called "Group" isn't really a solid united group at all. You just see it as that because you feel like an outsider and so everyone else looks like they are part of a collective but really everything is in a state of flux. The advice is to recognize someone who seems to know what's real and important and follow their lead. Perhaps by asking pertinent questions? Ask the questions everyone else is afraid to ask. They will be grateful to hear the answers and be invested in you, as their student, now being successful.
Hello;
10.1: don't behave out of your usual ways; 10.4: although dealing with these fellows sounds stressful, no harm is done if you have to do it; 10.6: you'll find your way with them.
29 describes a situation where no solid ground is visible & one must act upon their feelings/senses/instincts. Don't fear, go through it, you have the force to master the situation.
PS: I just came across your last post: the "empress" card totally confirms the advice of your reading, at least the way I read it. Big YES.
OK, thanks for your feedback.I mean you can finally fit in if you want to, though it sounds stressful & doubtful now.
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