What do I mean to my partner ?

[Luce Di Sole]

Today I have asked the IChing "What do I mean to my partner ?" and got
Hexagram 27 with changing lines 2,3,4 and 6

 

[diamanda]

What do I mean to my partner ? 27.2.3.4.6 > 34

The overall cast looks like someone starts from a position of hunger (27).
This very hungry person is very active about satisfying their hunger.
They look in wrong places for food (27.2), they eat the wrong food (27.3).
So they're still hungry after the wrong stuff, and they're still chasing for food like a hungry tiger.
Line 27.6 probably shows that the starving person finally finds the correct kind of food and eats it.
And then they become big and strong (34).

I'm hoping that line 27.6 symbolises you...
Your partner seems to be feeling unfulfilled and looking around.
Or is the cast describing you?

 

[Luce Di Sole]

What do I mean to my partner ? 27.2.3.4.6 > 34

The overall cast looks like someone starts from a position of hunger (27).
This very hungry person is very active about satisfying their hunger.
They look in wrong places for food (27.2), they eat the wrong food (27.3).
So they're still hungry after the wrong stuff, and they're still chasing for food like a hungry tiger.
Line 27.6 probably shows that the starving person finally finds the correct kind of food and eats it.
And then they become big and strong (34).

I'm hoping that line 27.6 symbolises you...
Your partner seems to be feeling unfulfilled and looking around.
Or is the cast describing you?

Wauw Diamanda very accurate A relationship of 23 years and we are in the autumn of our life....My partner was/is looking around (penopause?) and I suffered a lot, however lately I'm strong and I feel I have him in the hand again But if I am 27.6 He is 27.2 and 27.3 ? You can split that up ? Just now I asked how the future looks for our relationship and got 45.4 Thank you very much for taking the time to respond ! :bows:

 

[diamanda]

Since your husband is older now, 34 shows that he wants to feel young and virile again.
And since he's looking around, he's definitely the 27.2 and 27.3 and 27.4.
Who the 27.6 is will depend - on you too.

how the future looks for our relationship and got 45.4 > 8
You've got excellent chances to stir this in the right direction.

Maybe ask what you can do to be the 27.6 for him.
In my opinion, use youthful behaviour, so as to make him feel like a 34 again.
E.g. make him a bit jealous, make him wonder, wear more seductive clothes, be more playful etc.
What behaviour was it that drew him to you in the first place, way back? try to replicate.

PS - the 45.4 to 8 shows that someone finds someone to be together with in a group.
Is he on some online dating community? is he part of a group you're not in? if yes, try to stop that.
Try to draw him to common group activities, with you there as well.