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oceangirl

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Oh dear here I go again....thought I'd met The One but no Universe said NO!! First time really for a long while I was interested in having a relationship - eh!!

What do I need to know about my love life?
Hexagram 5 unchanging - Waiting!!!! - but waiting for what??

What am I waiting for?

Hexagram 45.4.5>2

Gathering - I'm waiting to gather with someone in which we're Receptive to each other
 
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Maybe you should read LiSe's translation about hex. 5, 45 and 2 (also the More about hexagram 5&6 link at the end of the hex 5 story) because in my personal opinion they give a different view, that might be more positive :)

Ahuh I understand this Thinkclear - I'm not Waiting expectantly as such - oh yes I'm doing lots of things in this period of Waiting most of all working on launching my business!! I'm very excited about it but it would've been nice to share it with someone special.
 
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And Gathering I guess, yes from my understanding of what Lise says - it's one who resonates with me, wearing the same uniform as such.
 
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Oh dear here I go again....thought I'd met The One but no Universe said NO!! First time really for a long while I was interested in having a relationship - eh!!

What do I need to know about my love life?
Hexagram 5 unchanging - Waiting!!!! - but waiting for what??

What am I waiting for?

LiSe's translation hex. 5
Creativity is not obedient. One cannot call for it and expect it to be there. But waiting in an open and quiet way makes the clouds clear up, and the sun of growth appear again.
Many things come by waiting, rather than by acting. As if one opens a cosmic door for them to enter. One’s own attitude is the door, if one waits in the right feeling, one acts at the right time.
It is of course always tricky to give an explanation without knowing the person and the situation, but here are my 2 cents:
If you replace the word Creativity with Love this could be read as "waiting and/while expecting" without (and this is somewhat of a paradox) needing it.

Again my opinion: hex. 45.4.5 and 2 seem to indicate that you are adviced to become YOU, centered in yourself (the inner attitude of "hello world this is me")
Gather around you what really belongs with you, and yet leave all in its/their own value. It makes realizing of ideals possible.
For your situation this could refer to an inner proces of gathering all that is really you and let go of believes etc. you picked up from others. By doing that you will "attract" The One ;) that is a perfect match for you.

Your hexagrams remind me of a quote I read years ago:
"Change will automatically flow from within when we let go of the need for things to change and let go of the need for things to stay the same"

This is just my interpretation, so take what resonates and throw away the rest ;)
 

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What do I need to know about my love life?
5. Wait.
Wait for what?
45.4 Great good fortune, no mistake.
45.5 You are in the right place. Now let things build up.
2. Being receptive.

I think you are being told that your love life will have to Wait a bit until you can be Receptive to the needs and desires of a romantic partner because right now your best success comes from focusing on your business (45.4). Perhaps when that builds up a bit (45.5) you will be able to be more responsive to romantic opportunities.
 
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Thankyou Thinkclear and Rosada all of what you've suggested resonates with me really. Everyday I meditate on keeping my heart open with Infinite Love.
There is a plebiscite on gay marriage going on in Australia right now, my son's sexuality is gay and he's finding some of the bigotry and prejudice hard going through the Yes/No vote. We got talking about Love and how it's better to expand our own Love out into the World particularly to those full of that bigotry. I'm lucky he's songwriter/musician that can use his hurts and frustrations creatively.
 

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The host line is 45.2 officer si fire which is year void under the year of you metal. There is no suitable person.
The relationship line is 45.1 parent wei earth and 45.6 parent wei earth. Wei earth and day of the reading (house of spouse zi water) are mutually destructive, and causes emotional problems.
Line 45.5 is brother you metal (guest), this is associated with the "fling".
Hex 2 is a six strike (conflict) hexagram. The parties conflict with each other. There is no harmony.

What you look for and hope for... that ideal person, you will not find at present in 2017.

There is a wife line mao wood at hex 45.3 and 2.3. Mao wood is month void (house of marriage) and day void (house of spouse). This means that you are not interested in triangle relationship and auction effort. You do not want any third party interfering with your relationship.
 
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The host line is 45.2 officer si fire which is year void under the year of you metal. There is no suitable person.
The relationship line is 45.1 parent wei earth and 45.6 parent wei earth. Wei earth and day of the reading (house of spouse zi water) are mutually destructive, and causes emotional problems.
Line 45.5 is brother you metal (guest), this is associated with the "fling".
Hex 2 is a six strike (conflict) hexagram. The parties conflict with each other. There is no harmony.

What you look for and hope for... that ideal person, you will not find at present in 2017.

There is a wife line mao wood at hex 45.3 and 2.3. Mao wood is month void (house of marriage) and day void (house of spouse). This means that you are not interested in triangle relationship and auction effort. You do not want any third party interfering with your relationship.

Well that sucks for me but thanks for the clarification Long Yi - nearly 9 years on my own and still only a young, vibrant woman!! It's just not right :hissy:

That's correct - I do not want any third party interfering with my relationship - well who does really except I guess those that enjoy partaking in threesomes :flirt:
 

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Oh dear here I go again....thought I'd met The One but no Universe said NO!! First time really for a long while I was interested in having a relationship - eh!!

What do I need to know about my love life?
Hexagram 5 unchanging - Waiting!!!! - but waiting for what??

What am I waiting for?

Hexagram 45.4.5>2

Gathering - I'm waiting to gather with someone in which we're Receptive to each other

I think you are waiting for that guy, the one you had a recent liason with. When I get 5uc I tend to find well, it really is just a question of waiting...and waiting, but it does come in the end.

What are you waiting for ? 45.4.5>2 waiting to reconnect with him I think. In line 5 a person has 'no position' no role, and that was how it was with you and him. But this line advises you make a position for yourself if you do not have one. It feels insecure and unknown so you have to make it for yourself. Line 4 is lovely and is often where things come together or get resolved by themselves, with the joint efforts of others, it's not all down to your efforts.

So in part I think you get some help here but you also have to make a role for yourself.

I could be wrong for sure about this and there are other ways to read it.
 
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Same thoughts as me Trojina when I read the Yi's answers as in Waiting to Gather with him. Thanks for the insight in finding that position for myself. It may well be I want a different sort of position within a relationship with him....certainly not less than, like what seemed to be happening before, but hmmm I'll work it out.
 

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If we convert your reading into Xiao shing iching layout
The house of zhen (#3) contains the kun earth trigram. This forms the hexagram 24.
Kun earth is all hollow and ying line (- -). This means hollow, but with many males at any gathering. The suitable person has not appeared.

Hexagram 24 means you are ready to pursue if the right person appears.

House of 5 (Central house) embeds the hexagram 20 (comtemplation). It means that it appears very hopeful on the surface, but realization is very difficult. With the wrong person, you have quarrels. Marriage is difficult.

However, Iching is mathematics and time domain science. Hexagram 20 embeds both Chi going downwards. This means that you have to take the initiative should the suitable male appears. Hex 20 means that you will run your background check before showing any signs of interest. There is nothing wrong with that.

In Chinese astrology, luck changes around Aug 8 each year for the next few months until Feb 4-8 2018, with the residual luck lingering until Aug 8 2018. This is the year of you metal. If it is unfavorable this year, next year is the year of Mou earth Xu earth (2018), it is quite different environment in 2018.

Iching reading is only good for the possible prediction of a single event with a defined target. If the male does not exist at present, the reading cannot analyse a non-existent person.

The lead that you may have is at 45.5 guest line brother line you metal. Brother line means that his mind is occupied with someone else. Since it transform into a child line (can be your soul), it may attract your attention. However in hexagram 2, the brother line remains the next host line and suppresses the guest line with wife line mao wood in the guest line. You wonder about this line 2.6 and 2.3 conflict with a female (not you). Line 6 is walking away from a conflict by the man. He would not stick around to look for a female companion. In general, brother line suppresses the wife line. No female would take a brother line fellow forward and expects harmony in the longer term.
 
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Thankyou Long Yi very interesting and insightful. The background checks on any male I meet has always been a priority to me. Could the transform child be his behaviour? He can act like a spoilt child but having said that his inner child is also very present....that side does attract me.
 

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In the Chinese literature,
Brother to child has many meanings. You feedback is among those.

It may mean the person is motivated to personally cause trouble and being unreasonable, and do whatever he wants (immature). This brings damage to the situation because the person is involved directly in those destructive behavior.

For a female, she will be a difficult woman, like a bandit. You cannot reason with her. For male or female, the person ignores all rules and conventions, like a child, and do whatever he/she wants.

For marriage, you will not have a good day at all because the person will blame the other partner for everything and is quite involved with such acquisition. It is more than suppression of the other party.
 
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That makes sense, I recognised in our time together, how many times he chose to sabotage the moments we were becoming close and the blame game...oh yeah that was there and then he was 'beside himself' with indignance when I walked away. Oh dear doesn't sound like a nice man really....!
 

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