What does he think of me. hexagram 53 changing to 20.

[zumi]

Hello, dear community,

So when I met P, I did not think of him as a potential boyfriend, more like a fling, but here we are, spending almost entire week together. I am afraid I will start falling for him soon, we made a lot of plans togethere.
So I asked Yi "Do we have a potential for serious relationship? " and got 25.1.4> 20. Today I asked "What does he think of me?" And got 53.3 > 20. As I interpreted this, he is an innocent young man, he is younger than me by 3 years, we started this thing so rapidly, I confused him, spoiled him sexually and I can't do anything about it anymore, just sit and watch, as hexagram 20 suggests. Did I scare him away because I said I want to slow things down by taking a break? After knowing me for a couple of weeks he invited me on his Christmas party for his company. Also, the last reading suggest that he does not think of me as someone to progress with, because the line 3 means stopping of the development.
please, give me your insights, we are having a weekend trip planned.
P.S. I have just asked what does he want from me and got 3.1 to 8. So I think it means that even if we started our relationship from 1 night stand, he hopes to creat union with me, am I correct?
PPS.
I have casted again about what he thinks of me, because last time onw of the coins got hit to the other object. I got 56.1 to 30. Sounds more optimistic
thank you!

 

[zumi]

Also, I made a mistake asking him what he thinks of open relationship. I just wanted to know, but the time was wrong. Now he thinks I am a total wreck, uncommitted one ( I told him I am afraid of relationship, going rapidly, but I did say that gradually I want commitment (.
P.S. I have just casted the question "What will happen if I go on the trip with P" and got 39.1.> 49.
OMG! It states clearly not to go anywhere, otherwise there will be some troubles. Our situation is so unclear right now, so I think I will follow rhe advice of IC. Any insights?

 

[zumi]

I have to say that I did cast it in different days, but I asked Oracle about me and P yesterday three times. The message I am getting is way confusing, maybe yes, we are good, maybe no. But 39.1 definitely made me think of cancelling the trip. We know each other only 2 weeks.