what does he want from me? 47.4.5-7

[luigirouge]

Dear All,

I have met a new person recently, we are somehow establishing a kind of relationship that suits me well.
I asked, what does he want from and it anszered 47.4.5-7, I`m a little bit lost with the answer because 47 is about communication that is not happening or happening differently? this time I'm lost with the interpretation.

Thank you for your help

 

[blue_angel]

Perhaps you're jumping into this too fast? 7 seems like you were just getting yourself together. 47 perhaps you're stunting your growth. 47 to me means no room for growth because something is in opposition with the times.

Line 4, seems it is not quite appropriate. There is something or someone else in need of your attention right now. I feel it also says "don't count your chickens before they hatch".

Line 5, this line has come up with people literally in some trouble at work. And that's
my only experience with it. The person is
chewed out by the boss and basically everyone
around them, feeling no support whatsoever. And there's basically nothing they can do to get out of it. So they have to wait it out and keep their composure. Eventually, with time, and sincerity everything smooths out and progresses again. I don't know how that fits for you. Are there other things not quite working out for you? Is there someone else on your mind that's having a bit of trouble? Perhaps, this reading is reflecting on your previous thread and that ended relationship.

 

[Trojina]

Would you mind

a. telling us if this is the same relationship as the thread below
b. update the thread below, tell us what happened

This thread http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frie...top-the-relationship-with-S-what-do-you-think

Thankyou

 

[luigirouge]

This person is not the same one as the last reading, this person is someone i just recently met, somehow he is always available and nice to me, which is nice, but I don't feel ready to it yet. I feel that I'm getting myself together, as blue_angel said, from previous relationships that did not work at all for me. I'm trying to rebuild from my old dynamics.
The person from my last post was too complicated to let me go out from these dynamics. Then I decided to split, I feel this new person is helping somehow, but i'm still in the process.
There is something that is not working for me, the age, he is younger...
Thank you!!!!

 

[sooo]

This person is not the same one as the last reading, this person is someone i just recently met, somehow he is always available and nice to me, which is nice, but I don't feel ready to it yet. I feel that I'm getting myself together, as blue_angel said, from previous relationships that did not work at all for me. I'm trying to rebuild from my old dynamics.
The person from my last post was too complicated to let me go out from these dynamics. Then I decided to split, I feel this new person is helping somehow, but i'm still in the process.
There is something that is not working for me, the age, he is younger...

This, to me, sounds like a perfect interpretation of the reading you're asking about.

Though it's not from your reading, there's a Wilhelm comment in hex 32.1, credited to Lao-tse, that says, "If we wish to compress something, we must first let it fully expand." It sounds to me as though you are just expanding after being released from your last compression.

 

[blue_angel]

Thank you for sharing where you are at. The reading does make more sense now. I would say the advice of the reading then is to "walk softly". Get to know this new person, but still take the time to work on yourself. There isnt a need to try and understand everything right now. This person may indeed help you. The reading reflects your own feelings. So it's not as bad as it seemed.

 

[luigirouge]

Continuing with this thread, I have been dating this nice guy for a moment know and I asked Yi to describe the situation. It answered 23.5.6-8. Stripping is an hexagram that I've obtained here http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frien...t-do-you-think talking about other person. The fact that stripping away has appeared in 2 different questions, talking about 2 different men means that this is a real process that I need to undergo, my question is, Am I in the internal process of stripping away? does it mean that I need to let go in order to host a union? or does it mean I need to undertake the process? Another interpretation could it be to leave him and then real union will come. Thank you for your comments.

 

[Tohpol]

I don't know the full history behind this but 23 stripping appears to show that some kind of psychological synthesis and reorganisation may be occurring in terms of emotions and self-concept. Line 6 offers the culmination of that inner synthesis - a new cycle. This may indeed mean that it might be better to see this process through alone. Or, it may be that it's perfectly fine to enjoy this partnership as you go forward.

Either way, it seems things are getting better so I would just be honest, communicate and enjoy what you have and see where it goes. If you feel that you are both growing together then no reason to change.