what does J. need from me this week?

[danadanadana]

I will be visiting J, a close relative, for a few days. I asked the oracle what does she need from me? I received Hexagram 47.4>29. I appreciate any insight you might have for me!

 

[becalm]

What is going on danadanadana, is this an oppressive kind of heavy relationship?

 

[danadanadana]

In all honesty, yes, the relationship has been oppressive to me in the past and I feel this person can be difficult. I also am currently more concerned about her well being and state of mind. I am going to celebrate her 80th birthday.

 

[becalm]

Going on the reading although probably not answering the question she seems to me to be in a depressed sort of state, just wants to be where she is and not going from that space, mentally or physically even. Hmmm I don't know, by the time a person gets to 80 (based on my own experience) they're not going to move from the mind set they have.

 

[thisworldcompany]

Maybe she would need help, like literally a ride somewhere or help getting around, or just help in general, but she feels embarrassed about this, so it might need to be handled delicately? Or maybe it is saying that you need help with this whole situation yourself, and not to feel embarrassed to ask others for support as you're attending to J?

 

[rosada]

Maybe she needs people, you, to be aware that her mind and body are not as quick as they used to be but she’s not demented so just give her a little extra time to tune into you.