What is his role in my life? 7.3.5>48

[samoyedgrrl]

It is rather interesting, this relationship I have with Terry. Now that I find the romantic embers have cooled, a friendship has developed between us. It is odd, however, that during times of high stress, somehow Terry just suddenly appears in my life once again. He has done this repeatedly over the past year. Each time, he seems to be the voice of reason and says something that is the most logical, but also most easily overlooked answer to the problem at hand.

It made me start to wonder if that is the reason he is in my life. So, I asked Yi, "What role does Terry play in my life?" and got 7.3.5 > 48. I get that he is the fixed, unchanging well with the answers that I need to hear at times when I need to organize and cannot think rationally for myself.

I then decided to ask Yi about the inverse of that. "What role do I play in Terry's life?" and received 4.4 > 64. Hmm....is Yi perhaps saying that it is to help him learn from his mistakes of the past...or for him to learn about himself?

 

[pocossin]

"What role do I play in Terry's life?" and received 4.4 > 64. Hmm....is Yi perhaps saying that it is to help him learn from his mistakes of the past...or for him to learn about himself?

I think you haunt him like the fox of 64. Things that have sunk into the river of forgetfulness remind him of you. Line 4.4 suggests he may never acknowledge your importance to him.

 

[samoyedgrrl]

Hmm, that sounds mysterious, Pocossin! I remember when the romantic relationship was at full blast seeing "that look" in his eye and some of the things he said let me know that I was of importance to him. Ultimately, I think that's what drove us apart. He wasn't ready to let go of the pain in his past to have a meaningful relationship with a woman in the present. So, I can see that I do mean more to him than he'll ever admit.

Thanks for the interpretation!