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what is inside this connection? 2.1>24

lilylotus

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A month go I met a person and I felt a connection, I asked the IChing what kind of connection was there and I got 56 changing to 12 and I thought to understand that was something dark there for me, but it was interpreted for me like this:


12.3,5 > 56

Now this isn't so bad as it seems, as it seems that you do have a chance with this new guy, so your days of being a single and feeling down are hopefully coming to an end.
Of course nothing will happen without a bit of push from you, and the belief that you will indeed succeed. So be strong and make those necessary changes in your life that will lead to a new relationship, do not despair, just be optimistic and go for it.

But after a month, broke my possibilities to connect with that person, before starting it, because even if I have felt intuitively connected to him at heart level, he is in a relationship, I did not know it, he said it to me and also he said he wants to have a relationship with me but without leaving the other person..:0 kind of selfish no?
I just feel that connection very strong and I know is mutual, I asked again what is there, I want to understand and I got:

2.1 > 24

Help interpreting is appreciate it, I just cant learn to read the Iching, it seems I interpret everything wrong, I am feeling frustrated about it:duh:
 

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2.1 can be very difficult since it throws the question back at you. Its asking you to 'read the signs' for what is now beginning to be apparent will in due course become abundantly so.

I imagine for you this might mean look at his behaviour to you so far, what does it show you about him ?


He wants a relationship with you whilst still in a relationship with another person ? Unless its an 'open' relationship where they have agreed to see others won't this mean a fair amount of deceit on his part and a fair amount of being second best on yours ?

I don't know if this is how you read the signs or if you see something more positive...all I'm saying is what you've seen so far is pretty much how things will be in future, theres not likley to be any big turn around in his attitude. At least thats a fairly clear answer..what there is is what you've seen so far...do you want more of that ?
 

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thank you, I am confused still in the interpretation I read from the 2.1

I deleted a possibility of a connection because I do not believe in open relationships, yes I do believe there is quite bit of deception even if he spoke openly about it before connecting with me, so he left the decision in my hand, yet it is not something I want to even consider.

What I can not understand is the relationship of hexagrams I got when I met with him (I got it twice same hex and they seemed to be talking about a happy important encounter) and then this 2.1
This last it would seem to me auspicious , positive, it talks about growth, I think, I I understand it as a need from me to be straight, and I was, but I understand the hexagram such as if it would be a return , like if even if we said bye he will reappear,

Also there is the interpretation of line one as marriage: "stepping on the hoarfrost" such as something that happened between us left tracks that will be difficult to erase?
However, the connection was an important intuitive feeling but nothing else , because nothing happened.
I also interpreted like there is still something I can not see, something that is not visible.

When I read line 1, I read about seeing things as they are now, so i can act in time (as I did) , but then I read he will return...I asked him to stay as friends, I told to him, I did not want the relationship he proposed, but he told me he wanted a relationship "or nothing" but his way with more people around...:0

then maybe what I read here is that what I told to him, are "tracks left on icefrost", that will make him think and maybe he will return and we will meet half way? as friends? respecting our point of views?
or maybe I come back to who I am, without angriness, because the true is nothing happened, maybe delusion that world is getting so mad as it is getting. I discovered somebody that has a way of living very different than mine, still that sense of inner connection is really very strong
 

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