What is my Destiny, my path in life? Hex 13- unchanged

[Posionivy]

I asked the Yi what is my Destiny in life, what is my path in this life. I got unchanged Hex 13.

Fellowship in the wild, with who? Myself or others?

If anyone can help me understand my reading, I would truly appreciate it. Thank you much, Ivy

 

[rosada]

One of the key teachings of the I Ching along with "Perseverance Furthers" is that it is necessary for us to connect with others, to find helpers, to seek union. Hexagram 13, Fellowship with Men, particularly speaks to the importance of finding others to bond with. Notice how the previous hexagram is 12. Standstill and how that hexagram describes conditions where one's natural energy has run out and there is the need to pick oneself up by the boot straps and get inspired again. 13. Fellowship then encourages joining or creating a support group to keep the effort going. Kinda like when we're little we have lots of energy and run around without thinking about it. But a time comes when we find we're sitting a lot, we're at a 12. Standstill and we need to consciously choose to exercise. From there we realize it's hard to stay focused on one's own but if we join a gym or a class then the 13. Fellowship keeps us going.

To receive this as a response to your question about your destiny I think you are being guided to find or form support groups. Your destiny is to fit in with a larger social order and be of use so that you can function at a higher level than you could on your own.

 

[Posionivy]

Everything you said makes perfect sense. I've always been a bit of a loner, I've always been able to take what life threw at me, and have always pulled myself up, never asking for help, I was strong and believed in my self. Now I'm just running in circles, I've lost my footing and not sure of anything or anyone anymore, I've gotten lost on my own path. Just recently I've been trying to find me and pull myself back up and re-enter this beautiful life that is passing me by, but I keep getting knocked back down.
Your interpretation of what's happening or happend is pretty spot on.
Thank you.