What is this rallying point I'm supposed to come up with?!?!

[cirka09]

I recently started communicating with someone that, to be honest, I never expected to hear from again. Everyone knows "the one that got away", well this is mine lol. The only girl I've ever managed to stay with for more than a month... and ever really connected with for that matter... It's been 5 years since we've communicated aside from occasional comments on Facebook, then one day this past December I offer my number, say get ahold of me sometime, and she does... Never expected it, but there ya go. Only problem is, I get the feeling she doesn't fully trust me. She's agreed to get together, but we haven't made it happen yet... it's hard to explain... it feels like there's some apprehension. So tonight I asked the Yi for advice.

"What must I do to help bring us together?"
The answer I got was 59.1.5 > 41

I honestly haven't been coming on strong or anything, I'm trying to feel my way as I go, because I'm afraid of taking a wrong step or boldly rushing ahead. Everytime I think about this situation I get the feeling that there's something I haven't done... some THING that I'm supposed to figure out in order to move past this stalemate.... I feel like I'm being given a second chance, but I don't know what I'm supposed to do! lol think, think, think...
So 59 is about dispersion that leads to gathering together? There's some tension that needs to be dispersed, I know, but what's the key?!?! What's the rallying point in line 5??? Because that's the thing I've been looking for since the beginning of 2010... It's always there, on the tip of my tongue and at the edge of my vision, but I can't make it out...

 

[cirka09]

Epic fail... I'm back in college and managing class, a full-time job, and keeping house has scrambled my brain... I just realized I've reversed the heads and tails number associations I usually use... blame it on my analytical geometry class... So the answer should be 55.1.5 > 31. Which seems to make more sense in that I was asking what to do to attract this girl...again... Now I need to go think some more. Feel free to comment and always remember, don't drink and divine

 

[willowfox]

This looks simple enough, if you want to attract her then you are going to need to approach her and ask if she's up for a coffee and cake, and see where it goes from there. If she doesn't like coffe and cake be flexible and try a beer.

 

[cirka09]

lol! You know, that is the impression I got. It does seem like a simple answer! I have tried to get together with her a few times since December, but two of those times, the weather was bad and the last time she had plans for a friends birthday... actually it's a good thing she did, because I ended up having to work that day lol. That could have been disastrous! Ask her out then have to cancel.... thank you birthday friend! So, I guess I've just had horrible timing and I need to keep trying?

 

[cirka09]

L.O.L! I'm going to try and make dinner plans for this Tuesday at a nice steak house in town. I don't like asking yes or no questions, but just for fun, I asked "Will she go to dinner with me this coming Tuesday?" My answer was 30 unchanging. Ok, fire. Fire is used for cooking. Cool. Then I read the image.... "care of the cow brings good fortune" HA! As expensive as this place is, they better take good care of it!

 

[willowfox]

L.O.L! I'm going to try and make dinner plans for this Tuesday at a nice steak house in town. I don't like asking yes or no questions, but just for fun, I asked "Will she go to dinner with me this coming Tuesday?" My answer was 30 unchanging. Ok, fire. Fire is used for cooking. Cool. Then I read the image.... "care of the cow brings good fortune" HA! As expensive as this place is, they better take good care of it!

Well, besides all that, the Hex can mean to cling, so it does suggest dinner for two, but anyway, she doesn't really have a choice.

 

[cirka09]

Thank you

 

[cirka09]

Just stopping by to deliver the final verdict.
No dinner.
In fact, I never even got a straight "yes" or "no". Just silence today when I asked if she was going to come with me. In light of that, I have no idea what Hex. 30 was all about?!?!

 

[willowfox]

I suggest that you call her to find out why as perseverance is the way to gain enlightenment.

Obviously there must be a reason, dig for it. Perhaps something happened at home?

 

[cirka09]

I did, but it was late at night so I just sent a text. I got a responce at about 3:00am when I was going to bed. It said " I soowwwwwyyy "

lol, I didn't pursue it further... We did talk for a bit, but not about dinner. Just talked. I never really expected her to say yes in the first place, so I'm not really surprised. My gut feeling is that she's just not comfortable around me right now. Hell, just talking to me is a huge improvement over the past 5ish years. Maybe I'm trying too much too fast.

Just for clarification, I aked the Yi another question, "What should I be most aware of over the next 30 days regarding my relationship with her?"

Answer 46.3.4 > 40

So, maybe no reason to use force as there is nothing to fight against, no obstruction to overcome. Better to take my time and not overexert myself. Maybe I'm blessed with a gift in the process??